Chad/Tate Lessons...

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1/18/2022 1:52am
Sully wrote:
"Prepare your child for the road, not the road for your child"
Someone needs to tell Roger this quote 🤣
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1/18/2022 3:55am
Kids need tough lessons. I’d venture to guess every single one of us took some real ass chewings on the tailgate. But I’ll echo the earlier sentiment; I’m glad none of my ass chewings ended up on YouTube. And I can guaran-fuckin-tee I won’t be broadcasting my kid’s ass chewings for all to see. It’s a weird world we live in when everyone feels the need to walk around “documenting their journey”.
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1/18/2022 5:11am Edited Date/Time 1/18/2022 5:30am
It seems like he just isn't that in to riding. The burning desire obviously isn't there.

As a kid, I would have been riding all over that 70 acres until dark in 95 degree heat or when the ground was frozen. When I was a kid, many of my friends had video game machines. I never had one because I never asked for one. I thought playing video games was boring, and I still do. Not everyone thinks riding a dirt bike is fun or would have wanted to do it all day. I believe as a parent that your job is to expose your kids to as many different things as possible and let them run with what they like to do. I had to beg my parents to let me buy a dirt bike with money I saved up from mowing lawns and doing chores. I had to carefully skirt around through the neighborhood to get to where I could ride without getting in trouble, and would still occasionally get run off by the cops.

My son has a dirt bike, but zero interest in riding it. He also has a Nintendo Switch, XBOX, and Playstation that he rarely plays with. He is playing with lego right now as I type this.
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1/18/2022 5:33am
Tough one.

Probably pretty hard to replicate the desire that is innate in someone like Chad, RC, James etc.. they're people who wanted to be the best... so questioning riding wouldn't have been a question until possibly burn out in a later career position.... they would have burnt more fuel in a year than many of us would have ever.

And then as a Parent, you got this super hard nosed, ex pro with a kid who's probably lived a pretty cushy life compared to most, not seeing any struggle like the parent would have grown up around, and it's just not the same experience so as much as you want to be understanding etc, it's just not the same....

Perhaps agree with the lesson but don't know it being on youtube does Tate any real good... but then again assuming it does no damage maybe it does. I do know TV and video games aren't good for kids tho, my two with an arvo of TV are different people, so we limit that shit hard and there is no way in hell video games are happening.
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1/18/2022 5:40am
Im reminded of the old meme with a 10/10 beautiful woman and the caption saying "No matter how hot she is, someone is sick of her #$% right now"

We can all say how we'd die to have the opportunities that Tate has, but what if you grew up with them too? I had the worst bikes and least amount of gear growing up and I swear the reason I had desire was to one day have the AXO kit, the liquid cooled bike, a box van. My Dad loved fishing, would take us any time (and did alot). In return, I go fishing like once a year and half ass it as an adult.

I applaud the Reed's. It would be really easy to "drop sick edits" of the kids and crap they have, but I enjoy watching them because their kids are real kids and watching Chad and Elle navigate and handle the same situations I have with my boy. IMO that was just a heavy dose of reality Chad dropped. And it has to happen. Kids need reality checks as much as they need praise. Respect for their channel grew
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1/18/2022 5:45am
I would guess that many think Chad is living the life. Millionaire, beautiful family, has everything any person would want. On the other hand he has a lot of responsibility. How do you teach your kids that life isn't easy when all they see is the fancy cars, clothes, house, bike, etc? They didn't see the work it took for him to get this lifestyle so how do you make them understand it doesn't just appear? I'm not sure the vlog series is the way to do it, and not sure him and Ellie are doing it for all the right reasons, but it's interesting to see play out.
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1/18/2022 5:51am
Just imagine if your dad was chad reed...
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1/18/2022 6:08am
enketchum wrote:
Y r they filming this?
What do you do with all your extra time from not spelling out why and are?
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1/18/2022 6:38am
yak651 wrote:
I would guess that many think Chad is living the life. Millionaire, beautiful family, has everything any person would want. On the other hand he has...
I would guess that many think Chad is living the life. Millionaire, beautiful family, has everything any person would want. On the other hand he has a lot of responsibility. How do you teach your kids that life isn't easy when all they see is the fancy cars, clothes, house, bike, etc? They didn't see the work it took for him to get this lifestyle so how do you make them understand it doesn't just appear? I'm not sure the vlog series is the way to do it, and not sure him and Ellie are doing it for all the right reasons, but it's interesting to see play out.
My wife and I believe leading by example is key. We both work hard and tell our son that he has to work hard in school if he wants to have the life we currently have. Chad is in a weird position since he made all his money when he was young and is now retired. I think he will succeed though. He and Elle both seem grounded.
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1/18/2022 7:18am
These threads always amaze me with how they demonstrate the wild variance of perspective humans have. As a guy raising 2 young adult males myself(you’re not a man until you stand on your own 2 feet unassisted), Chad is in a tough spot most successful people have to figure out. You have these humans you created who you love intensely. You want then to be safe, healthy, happy, protected, etc.. The bad news is those conditions breed people who are entitled, lazy, dependent, and a drain on your life. It’s a hard line to walk. He appears to being a good job so far, and I think it may even help some other folks with their perspectives.
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1/18/2022 7:58am
I grew up with an abusive father that a lot of people would say was just behaving as an old school typical male. Now that I'm a dad of two 11 year old twin boys I can tell you that you can't just whack a kid on the head a few times and they'll somehow become manly men as adults. The best you can do is point them in the right direction and hope that they'll figure it out on their own.
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1/18/2022 8:40am
One thing I think a lot are overlooking in this is that Chad was explaining to Tate that if you’re not fully focused and thinking about other things, you will get bit by these bikes. Tate wasn’t fully there and was wondering why he was even there… Chad explained with that type of thinking and second guessing, getting onto a motorcycle becomes even more dangerous. Chad lived that life, he’s seen people get hurt, friends die, people get paralyzed, all those things we never thought of as kids. He wants his kids to be do this as safely as they possibly can. Wondering why you’re there is a good way to not be fully concentrated and have bad things happen when they probably wouldn’t have if you were fully focused.

I know for me, most of my crashes have been on those days were I wasn’t fully into it and thinking other things were more important.
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1/18/2022 8:43am
The first whipping I remember getting, (not the first I ever got though, nor the last) I was 4 or 5. Outside the door of the dimestore, my granny said 'Don't touch anything.' I made it about a minute before I'd picked up a GIJoe toy... She didn't even take it out of my hands. Wore me OUT. Right here, right now. No 1, 2, 3. No, 'When we get home.' It was immediate and she made it count. I remember crying and putting it back on the shelf. Years later, I had my first little girlfriend. I took her by to meet grandma. She told her the story and said, 'He put it back and stuck his little hands in his pockets.' We were about to leave and she pointed at me and said, 'Don't touch anything....' Yes ma'am. Today, if someone whipped a kid like that, the odds are good that the law and social services would get called. But I thank God for grandma. That somebody loved me enough to make me mind. Hopefully, Chad's kids will love him all the more for the discipline he's teaching them now.
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1/18/2022 8:47am
My two cents: Chad, if you want your kids to have fun as you said 10 times in the video, show them the path, preach with the example. Bring on a speaker and put music loud while dressing up, tell stupid stories, or even dance, bring a BMX, scooter, or a soccer ball to warm up and start laughing. Bring yourself a bike and get dressed with them. Whatever, but don't just say you want them to have fun when you aren't even with a smile on your face, nor even looking happy to be there either and so on creating a tense atmosphere. It's not good for his little brother and sis to see him like that and you so tense. They didn't want to be breathing inside that atmosphere and the little one just said let's go home. They are kids and they don't know how to do stuff. If you want them to have fun, be the first to have fun and they will lead.
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1/18/2022 9:01am
That made me cringe. I’m all for teaching kids life lessons but to be the son of a multi time champ has to be immense pressure. He was all over that kid before he even checked to see if he was hurt. Is Tate ever going to be good enough for Chad unless he’s turns out to be a Champion? Maybe Tate just wants to cruise around and trail ride instead of honing his skills to clear that triple. That was hard to watch.
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1/18/2022 9:28am Edited Date/Time 1/18/2022 10:16am
CLICK HERE AS CYNICAL STRANGER RANTS AGAINST MOTO DAD - YOU'LL NEVER BELIEVE IT!

Get your downvotes ready as I add myself to the group of those that think this has no business being on Youtube. No child needs their vulnerable - and what should be private - moments filmed and uploaded. The father-son conversation they had was perfectly normal, but having a camera guy there moving around to keep his shadow off of Tate's crying face is FAR from it. I imagine knowing they are being filmed also affects how the situation played out to begin with - how could it not? As Chad mentioned, we all get to have our opinions, and to me this stuff is voyeuristic garbage. Gotta build that channel and revenue stream at all costs, I guess.
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1/18/2022 9:41am
My father picked up my DT100 over his head, and threw it into the back of our F150 after I cartwheeled it behind the high school fields. It was frightening and awesome at the same time.
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1/18/2022 9:43am Edited Date/Time 1/18/2022 9:44am
I find most of chad's videos cringey.... this one more than most.... Chad got torqued why? Cause his kid got his bike muddy? I remember when my dad used to yell at me for that... i never said it, but in my mind "Hey dude, you bought me this thing, and its a MOTOCROSS bike, designed to get muddy, and now you don't want me to get it dirty?".... LOL... cringey....

Edit- my kids are encouraged to get as muddy as possible, as often as possible... bikes too...
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1/18/2022 10:22am
gt80rider wrote:
I find most of chad's videos cringey.... this one more than most.... Chad got torqued why? Cause his kid got his bike muddy? I remember when...
I find most of chad's videos cringey.... this one more than most.... Chad got torqued why? Cause his kid got his bike muddy? I remember when my dad used to yell at me for that... i never said it, but in my mind "Hey dude, you bought me this thing, and its a MOTOCROSS bike, designed to get muddy, and now you don't want me to get it dirty?".... LOL... cringey....

Edit- my kids are encouraged to get as muddy as possible, as often as possible... bikes too...
The mud wasn’t the problem….
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1/18/2022 10:28am
I don't think that was much of a ripping at all.
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1/18/2022 2:57pm
I have a son that i bought a new ktm 65sx for in 2019, it was $5400.00

He rode it twice and decided fortnite was a better path, i sold the bike and slammed the xbox in the middle of our street while he watched. I have been right in chads shoes.

hats exactly what i did, not to mention he got pissed at the game and threw the controller at the family room tv and busted that over fortnite. So his actions became bratty, so i deleted the entire can of bullshit from our lives, you can say what you want but, the kids back now,

Gee, I wonder where he learned to translate his frustrations into an act of aggression from.
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1/18/2022 3:02pm
I have a son that i bought a new ktm 65sx for in 2019, it was $5400.00 He rode it twice and decided fortnite was a...
I have a son that i bought a new ktm 65sx for in 2019, it was $5400.00

He rode it twice and decided fortnite was a better path, i sold the bike and slammed the xbox in the middle of our street while he watched. I have been right in chads shoes.

hats exactly what i did, not to mention he got pissed at the game and threw the controller at the family room tv and busted that over fortnite. So his actions became bratty, so i deleted the entire can of bullshit from our lives, you can say what you want but, the kids back now,

Gee, I wonder where he learned to translate his frustrations into an act of aggression from.
Good looking out, next time ill dress up in a tutu and perform a dance recidal in front of him.


And be that soft, i was pissed in that moment that he destroyed our family room tv so i destroyed his xbox, end of story dude.
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1/18/2022 3:21pm
thepelican wrote:
My two cents: Chad, if you want your kids to have fun as you said 10 times in the video, show them the path, preach with...
My two cents: Chad, if you want your kids to have fun as you said 10 times in the video, show them the path, preach with the example. Bring on a speaker and put music loud while dressing up, tell stupid stories, or even dance, bring a BMX, scooter, or a soccer ball to warm up and start laughing. Bring yourself a bike and get dressed with them. Whatever, but don't just say you want them to have fun when you aren't even with a smile on your face, nor even looking happy to be there either and so on creating a tense atmosphere. It's not good for his little brother and sis to see him like that and you so tense. They didn't want to be breathing inside that atmosphere and the little one just said let's go home. They are kids and they don't know how to do stuff. If you want them to have fun, be the first to have fun and they will lead.
Watch his other videos; they do all of that, except the music.

Say what you will about this particular episode, but between the Youtube channel, and their Instagram pages, the Reeds seem to be all about their kids, and by all accounts are really good parents.

Austin_Rankin: You may think you're making your son this hard-ass, non-pussified, manly man, but all you're really teaching him is that emotion driven tantrums are perfectly acceptable responses to stressors. Not something to be proud of, my man...
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1/18/2022 3:40pm
@sully ill work on it man thanks for the response.

Next time ill support him in his decisions of throwing the controllers at the family room tv.

Ill say to him “yea man great job, another thousand dollars down the toilet over a free downloadable game” your on the right path son!
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1/18/2022 4:25pm
enketchum wrote:
Y r they filming this?
murph783 wrote:
What do you do with all your extra time from not spelling out why and are?

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1/18/2022 4:33pm
Tough love is one thing, but cussing at your kids with the F word? That's questionable to me.
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1/18/2022 4:45pm
Moto Nomad wrote:
Tough love is one thing, but cussing at your kids with the F word? That's questionable to me.
And that’s totally cool for you to have that opinion. You’re certainly not alone. But as a fellow fan of F words, I wouldn’t read in to that too much. My kids hear me say fuck plenty. Maybe we’re having a fuck ton of fun, maybe I’m really fuckin frustrated with their decision making, or maybe I really fuckin love them. In all instances, the F word is simply there to accentuate whatever words of wisdom I’m expounding upon.
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1/18/2022 5:07pm
And that’s totally cool for you to have that opinion. You’re certainly not alone. But as a fellow fan of F words, I wouldn’t read in...
And that’s totally cool for you to have that opinion. You’re certainly not alone. But as a fellow fan of F words, I wouldn’t read in to that too much. My kids hear me say fuck plenty. Maybe we’re having a fuck ton of fun, maybe I’m really fuckin frustrated with their decision making, or maybe I really fuckin love them. In all instances, the F word is simply there to accentuate whatever words of wisdom I’m expounding upon.
I've always had a pretty foul mouth, but in the same manner as you described. Not necessarily always in anger. Neither of my sons, both over 30 now, curse at all. Everyone said they would grow up to be foul-mouthed like me. I said it I didn't matter to me, as long as they were articulate, eloquent, and grammatically correct while doing so.
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1/18/2022 5:20pm
Moto Nomad wrote:
Tough love is one thing, but cussing at your kids with the F word? That's questionable to me.
Huh....
I grew up on a cattle ranch.
It taught me how to use fuck correctly.

"If I have to tell you to fucking get off that fucking gate one more fucking time, I'm going to fuck you up!"
I turned out OK.
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1/18/2022 5:22pm
Moto Nomad wrote:
Tough love is one thing, but cussing at your kids with the F word? That's questionable to me.
SEEMEFIRST wrote:
Huh.... I grew up on a cattle ranch. It taught me how to use fuck correctly. "If I have to tell you to fucking get off...
Huh....
I grew up on a cattle ranch.
It taught me how to use fuck correctly.

"If I have to tell you to fucking get off that fucking gate one more fucking time, I'm going to fuck you up!"
I turned out OK.
You certainly have a grasp on how to use the F word. Nice to see.
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