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About a month ago I completely broke myself off. Hospital trip, broken bones (some very alarming), rehab, and finally am getting ready to go back to work in a few weeks. I'm 32 and have a job where sick time accrues (thank God). I've got a wife and beautiful family.
I usually race woods stuff but always enjoyed practice days on the MX track. Three months ago I got the bright idea to race a local supercross. I wasn't in it to win it, it was more a less a way to go out with friends and enjoy the cooler summer air under the lights with buddies as opposed to sweating like an idiot in the 90+ degree heat. Got hooked! Well my last time out, still racing 30+ B, just riding, a freak high side off a jump really made me reconsider what the hell I am doing.
I've quit once before when I didn't have time or money for it and it sucked. I let myself get fat and had no release for stress or enjoyment. Riding Dirtbikes I think keeps me focused on something and looking forward to the next ride day. The sport has done more for me the past 5 years than anything else. I hunt and fish and shoot, but nothing brightens up my soul like throwing a leg over my YZ.
Nothing scares me like not being able to walk or work ever again either.
Any of you older bros have a major injury that made you question this crazy crap we do? How have you moved past it? Do you still ride or race?
My kids want to get into it. I was thinking about keeping my bike so I could at least follow them around to local loops and practice tracks we have nearby. The street bike is gone. I figured if I could do what I did in the dirt, a car pulling out infront of my R1 at 50+ MPH would not turn out well. Got a RZR900, b*****s love RZRs.
I usually race woods stuff but always enjoyed practice days on the MX track. Three months ago I got the bright idea to race a local supercross. I wasn't in it to win it, it was more a less a way to go out with friends and enjoy the cooler summer air under the lights with buddies as opposed to sweating like an idiot in the 90+ degree heat. Got hooked! Well my last time out, still racing 30+ B, just riding, a freak high side off a jump really made me reconsider what the hell I am doing.
I've quit once before when I didn't have time or money for it and it sucked. I let myself get fat and had no release for stress or enjoyment. Riding Dirtbikes I think keeps me focused on something and looking forward to the next ride day. The sport has done more for me the past 5 years than anything else. I hunt and fish and shoot, but nothing brightens up my soul like throwing a leg over my YZ.
Nothing scares me like not being able to walk or work ever again either.
Any of you older bros have a major injury that made you question this crazy crap we do? How have you moved past it? Do you still ride or race?
My kids want to get into it. I was thinking about keeping my bike so I could at least follow them around to local loops and practice tracks we have nearby. The street bike is gone. I figured if I could do what I did in the dirt, a car pulling out infront of my R1 at 50+ MPH would not turn out well. Got a RZR900, b*****s love RZRs.
-ride vs dont ride
-girls that like your RZR vs your wife
What you are going through is fairly common where responsibilities start to be bigger than your wants. Its hard to answer though because its such a personal scenario. I think you know what to do but hard to pull the trigger, either way you decide. More than anything, this issue has a way of making one aware of an old chapter in life closing and a new one starting.
I only have eyes for my wife. She even supports me if I want to race again. She's a sweet woman and I'm lucky to have here.
They do like RZRs but I like my wife better. Hahahaha.
I'm leaning towards keepin the bike and enjoying trail riding, where it all started. I've also invested in safety equipment. Where all I've worn before was knee guards and a under jersey roost protector. I'm gonna be putting the whole kit on with the understanding I can still get hurt, even with it.
It's tough though. Part of me is like, bro... At least get to retirement, get your kids off on their own, then kill yourself if you want to. The other part says you can get killed in a car crash on your way to work, live your days.
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for 4 months....Dr. said I'd be lucky to walk reasonably, let alone ride a
dirt bike again. Fast forward through 3 1/2 years , 4 surgeries and hours &
hours of pt, & I decided to try riding again, and once I realized I could
manage it, it was on- I'm a lot slower than I used to be, but I'm enjoying it
more than I ever have. My older son also started back up again, now we
go together every weekend- Nothing better-
I posted a thread just like this one and I had a reply in that thread that really made me think. Here is the post below. Machine is 100% right. I have not had any other major injuries up till this point. My neck has healed well and my body feels great. It was a hard decision and I definitely had to go through a grieving process but I really don't want to live the rest of my life with aches and pains from any future crashes. I will probably still MTB but I am okay with not riding moto.
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Theres life beyond mx...trust me. Its about the worst thing you can do if you want to enjoy life later on. I dont reget all my injuries, but if i had what you have, i would have quit long before i did. Im turning 50 this year and quit a year ago. Ive found other things to keep me busy and look forward to a quality life in retirement. Good luck with your decision.
Here is the link to my thread: http://www.vitalmx.com/forums/Moto-Related,20/Looking-for-advice-just-had-C5-C6-C7-vertebrae-fusion-should-I-ride-anymore,1299388
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Like others said, my life would not be complete without moto. I am without a doubt much slower then I was 15 years ago, but I still love chopping laps with my brother, daughter and friends and getting the occasional gate drop in.
I agree with MX836 - if you fear getting hurt, it might be time to think about hanging it up. I don't fear getting hurt, its part of the risk we all take. That being said, I have never had a major injury. I broke a bone in my hand, tore my ACL in my left knee and put a nasty puncture in my thigh from a footpeg, but over all, nothing super serious, certainly nothing life threatening.
My thoughts might be different if I had had some worse injuries, I don't know.
As of now, I love riding and look forward to every ride day I can get, especially now that my 12 year old daughter rides with me.
I ruptured the next day and then become infected.
I can see another 8 weeks before im back at work earning a living to support 3 children and an unsimperthetic wife.
After the 6 surgeries and 17 weeks wages i will be almost $30,000 in the hole, no i dont have that in savings.
Single at home with mum and dad mx is No1.
Married with children you have to be prepared.
Its good to hear your back on track soon.
I am old and suffer badly from past injuries for this fact alone i dont want my children to ride.
Myke, thanks for that. I've read your post and the post from machine. That's where I am. I guess I'm not afraid of giving it up either, I'm looking for answers only I can come up with. I don't want to sell the bike and be miserable when I could be enjoying myself. I also don't feel like jeopardizing my health and more importantly my family.
Thanks for your posts, all of you, sincerely. It's good to talk about it with people who have been through it. Most of my friends don't understand and the ones that do, still race, So you know their opinions.
Badboy, thanks for sharing. That's crazy awful. I'm sorry to hear about all that. I get it. Like if you read above about my neck, what's it going to be the next time. I was being careful, seriously. I literally hit some slick stuff, lost the bike, thought I saved it and was horribly wrong. I'm comfortable on a dirtbike. My instinct when I know I'm screwed is to bail. Boy I was wrong on so many levels. Thanks again.
GetFresh, you're probably right. Let me get back on the bike and go from there. I'll probably be fine. I really didn't even realize I was crashing until I woke up. Somehow without a concussion. I don't know. Trail riding and woods races will probably be ok, but I'll have to send a jump before I make my mind up.
While it seems I may be going back and forth here guys and gals, I really appreciate your posts and input. I can't stress that enough. Thanks.
Hvaughn, that's awesome to hear. I think I could immerse myself into something else. It's just a big move. I luckily have access to some land to ride on and you're right. My wife thankfully supports whatever I want to do. Thanks for your input.
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One day after work, I meet up with a buddy for a practice session at Elsinore. Not even 10 minutes on the track and I find myself lawndarted after a slick turn into a step-up and had the lights knocked out for a good 5 min. Ended up going to the ER with a lacerated spleen, 3 broken ribs, collapsed lung, bruised kidney, broken collarbone and thumb. Ended up losing the spleen and spent 6 days in intensive care. Damn near died with the amount of internal bleeding in my stomach. Had a lot of time to think about what I was doing and my priorities in life. Although I gave up racing on a weekly basis, I still ride and race an occasional GP and 6 hour. I have however learned that my prime has passed and MX is now a hobby and not a lifestyle when your supporting and raising a family. It's been a good amount of years since my accident and still have that same passion when I was a kid, but my right hand has eased up considerably.
Every time you swing your leg over the bike there is a risk. I'm willing to take that risk for my love of the sport, but I know my limits and stay within my boundaries. Sometimes I'll get that itch we all know about at the track to clear that new double or step-up at the track. Damn, it's so tempting!! I know my ability and what I can do, but that little voice in your mind telling you, you can clear that. All in all, if MX is in your blood, it'll never leave you. Everything in life needs moderation and I've balanced it pretty good in this 2nd chance at life.
We have a tricked out 900 Rzr as well. I have found it to be fun for a while, but it will become a money pit. The more you take it out, the faster you want to run it - and they do break. And when they do, they are expensive to fix. And contrary to popular belief, you CAN crash a Rzr and you CAN get hurt in them. They can be fun as hell, but be aware that you still need to focus on safety with them and be mentally prepared to throw down a lot of coin to keep them fixed and running. It's a lot of fun, but we always find ourselves still going back to dirt bikes. Just do it for the fun of it.
Yeah no joke. Parts for those UTVs are expensive. If I sold off the bike, I could really put money into the UTV but I don't think I want to sell the bike. One of my best friends owns a shop. I get parts at cost and i can pay him off whenever (within reason). I'm gonna race the local winter series with the RZR and see how I like it. Still really can't see life without a bike though. I have no disillusions about getting hurt in one. I do think running one with a neck brace, protecting the main body part that's giving me concern) is safer than a bike, but yeah, with any of it comes a risk.
Thanks for your input.
Been thinking alot about the guy while I sit here trying to recover from my shattered ankle....
I don't have kids so I know that would change my perspective in this situation. I surf, mountain bike and snowboard as well. I guess this stuff is what keeps me looking forward at this point in my life.
Just follow your heart, if you want to ride, you will know it. If your doubting it, that's when it's time to hang things up.
When you have doubts in your mind, listen.
If you have it in you to just tone it down, try that first. Ride at the slower tracks with less risk.
It doesn't matter how good you are, age or injury always catches up with us all. It's knowing how to manage that and adapt your riding to try keep it safe. No shame in it.
I've watched some gncc's on Racer TV and been thinking about trying one. I have a great wife and two kids that I want to enjoy while they are kids as well as provide a good life for them. My wife was actually trying to talk me into racing earlier this summer.
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