Today’s tough decision for Ladybug

lumpy790
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Today is a massively tough day for us. 

My wife has volunteered at the shelter and even been the president of a group of short term fosters so we have fostered many many dogs through our home in the last 15 years. 7 years ago while I was away at the Atlanta Supercross She was at the shelter desk when someone brought in a little black puppy and due to Parvo where puppies are always immediately placed in to fosters she took her home for us to “foster” She called me and told me about her my wife named Ladybug and I immediately knew we had our foster fail #3 Bug was with our other 2 dogs being well trained until we had to make the tough decisions for both of them.

We were not aware that LadyBug has been in so much pain and it has progressed extremely fast in the last 2-3 weeks from what I thought was a simple sprain with a little limping then what I thought was swelling that I had been icing to a 1  x 3/4 large bump on her first knee and its been getting noticeably larger every day. 

We just returned home after 10 days in the RV with Ladybug going up to Virginia for a relative’s wedding and now back home.  We went to her Vet yesterday and found that it is a very fast moving bone cancer that will quickly spread and be affecting her lungs and heart.

A tough but necessary decision by both of us today to stop her pain and say good bye to her today in 4 hours at 5 

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olds cool
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7/1/2026 11:20am

Sorry to hear about Ladybug Lump.  I had to make the same call for my last best friend just over a year ago and still think about her and miss her every day.

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lappedrider
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7/1/2026 11:46am

Very sorry for your loss.  Looks like you helped Ladybug live the best life.  

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e-wa
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7/1/2026 12:59pm

So very sorry, such a tough decision. 

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peelout
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7/1/2026 1:41pm

looks like you gave her a great life and were great friends

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7/1/2026 1:52pm

Oh man, I'm just reading this right now at about the zero hour. Sorry, Lumpy. I wish dogs could live forever.

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lumpy790
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7/1/2026 4:25pm

This all came around very quick but it was the right time and we were both having the same thoughts with out even talking about it. We both are now relieved that she is out of pain in a better place but we still want to cry.

The only option was amputation and kemo that might give her 3 months and with her already having both knees on her back legs getting huge surgery’s that both took her 3 months of recovery with almost no movement each time there was no way she could do that.

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7/1/2026 5:55pm

Yep...good on ya for giving her so much love and a great life.

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G-man
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7/1/2026 6:12pm

Oh, man, sorry to hear about Ladybug. 

She reminds me of my sweet Bailey who I had to put down in October. She helped me so much during my initial Grieving, when I lost my wife as she slept on the bed right next to me. 

I miss them both tremendously.......😢

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7/1/2026 7:52pm

So sorry to hear about Ladybug. That's about the toughest decision you can make, just heartbreaking. Hope you and your wife know your kindness made her life as good as it could ever have been. 

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Zycki11
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7/2/2026 6:58pm

Mans best friend, we do not deserve the love, devotion, and forgiveness of dogs.  They are constantly a role model, best friend, joy, you name it.  Sorry for your loss Lumpy, it never gets easy and always hurts. But rest assured, it appears you gave ladybug the life deserved

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7/2/2026 7:03pm

So sorry for your loss. 😔🐶🌈 It’s crushing to go through.  

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eeazye
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7/3/2026 5:16am

So sorry for your family’s loss. Bug looked like she was an absolute sweetheart!

I had to make the same call a little over a year and a half ago for my best pal. That’s the toughest thing I’ve ever gone through, but it was the right call. The only thing I would change is I might have done it sooner for his sake. I think i might have waited a bit longer than i should have, but for me, not him. 

I think y’all are in a better spot as far fostering and adopting, but I wasn’t and waited. I recently adopted a senior dog that was kind of in a bad spot, and man I couldn’t be happier. I keep telling everyone I’m not sure who’s more grateful, him or me! He is just a great dog. 

He may not be here for a long time, but I’ll damn sure make it a good time for him 😎

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BMR179
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7/3/2026 6:23am

I'm sorry for Ladybug and your family.  Sounds like you gave her a great life and she reciprocated.  

Godspeed

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FLmxer
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7/3/2026 6:31am

Sorry for your loss.  Looks like a lot of great memories shared traveling with her. Rest well Ladybug.

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TeamGreen
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7/3/2026 8:38pm

Steve, sorry for what you’re going thru…I’m always grateful that a dog like Ladybug has a life with loving humans like you.

Oh…and…

Fuck Cancer! 

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1 day ago

Sorry to hear Lumpy and I feel your pain. There is nothing worse than saying goodbye to pet. It hurts just remembering the times I went through it.

Be strong brutha, Ladybug is pain free In doggy heaven.

 

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steveloyer
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1 day ago

Damn, wasn't expecting vital to make me tear up in the morning.

She looks like she had a great life.

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borg
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1 day ago
steveloyer wrote:

Damn, wasn't expecting vital to make me tear up in the morning.

She looks like she had a great life.

Unless I'm mistaken, you have been around for awhile. Was it S.loyer? I don't quite remember.

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1 day ago

My condolences. RIP Ladybug.

lumpy790
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1 day ago Edited Date/Time 1 day ago

Thank you for all of the support guys its been tough for both of us.

I went to the casino last night to try and unwind and Kathy mentioned to me just now that since We moved in our house in 2007 and we have never been completely alone at home without a cat or dog … until now

I hustled and mowed the lawn and it hint me while doing it that I will never be doing the poop walk with the scoop bucket and Bug always giving me a fresh one.

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