Inflation and the Cost of Riding Dirt Bikes

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I'm not a boomer...I'm a millennial (and older one, but a millennial none the less)...my entire family (grandfathers, dad, brothers, uncles, cousins) are coal miners (with...

I'm not a boomer...I'm a millennial (and older one, but a millennial none the less)...my entire family (grandfathers, dad, brothers, uncles, cousins) are coal miners (with a few exceptions).  Blue collar, uneducated, under-ground coal miners.  Amazing human beings...but not even remotely close to being in a position to hand me anything from a financial perspective (of note, most all of my family members own homes-even my youngest brother who is 29-and all my brothers ride and race regularly...and they did it all with no help from my parents)...I'm the first-and only-member of my immediate family to go to college (even though I only have an associates degree) and the first in three generations to move out of the town I was born and raised.  

I was just starting my career in residential mortgage finance, and bought my first home in 2005...then 2008 hits...decimates my industry (I worked for 3 different companies who all went out of businesses over a two year period)...I bought my home near the peak, and with no money down, so I was massively upside-down in my home (it took nearly a decade before I was right-side-up on my home.)..I just grinded, worked harder, used my brain to figure out ways to create income and did what I had to do to get by...2016/2017, I'd just paid off the debt I'd accumulated trying to get by from the 2008 crash...was finally not under water on my house (that was now to small, as I had no kids in 2005 when I bought it, and 4 kids by 2017)...And felt I was finally in a position to get into a larger home...I sold that home in 2017 and made just enough on it to cover the 5% down payment on the home I'm in now.

And as bad as 2008 was for the economy, my industry got hit hard again in 2022-2024...and 2022 was far worse for me personally from a financial perspective than 2008...(its finally returning to normal, though not where it was in 2019)...when rates went from record lows to multi-decade highs in a matter of months...refinances stopped instantly, home purchases largely stopped (everyone was waiting "for rates to come back down"...many are still waiting).  From about 2011/12-2020-21 I had done really well, I felt like I was seeing light at the end of the tunnel, feeling great about where I was financially, stable in my career, prepared to cover college and other things for my four kids...then instantly virtually no income...FOR OVER TWO YEARS...savings ran out after about a year...picking up odd jobs here and there, taking on some debt, but mostly grinding (thinking outside the box and working 10X's as hard for a fraction of the income) to try and make ends meet after that.  Now, here I am, in my 40's, and virtually starting over AGAIN and almost done digging my way out of this hole AGAIN (pay off the debt...get retirement/investment back on track).  

I share this not for pity (many have it worse than me)...but I don't blame anyone...this is all on me.  Maybe I should have just stayed on the medical school track I was on? (HA!) But I certainly should have prepared better for this...I should have learned from 2008, I should have diversified my referral partners more, I should have diversified my income more, I should have spent less and saved more, I should have run more lean on business expenses...there is a host of things I could have/should have done differently that would have helped me in both 2008 and 2022.  I'm not mad at anyone but myself.  I don't point fingers at anyone else or expect anyone to do anything different to make my life easier...it's all on me.  I'm now a few years into starting a second business to diversify my income (and its going awesome so far, and getting some traction). I'll be fine. The future is bright. I will figure it out. 

So, sure, I bought my home before home prices spiked (thank goodness)...but for some young(er) buck to tell me I had it easy because home and truck prices were lower when I was in my 20's than they are today...or to tell me that "figure it out" and "work harder" is naive and out of touch (when I've had to do it TWICE in my adult life)...that's just nonsense.  

OwenJakes wrote:
If you have a mortgage you are not a home owner. You are a debtor and occupant. The goal of a man is to OWN the home...

If you have a mortgage you are not a home owner. You are a debtor and occupant. 

The goal of a man is to OWN the home and not be on the hook for a a financially violent interest rate. Different discussion but the attitude in this thread seems to be that securing the mortgage and property is the goal. That is not the goal. The goal is independence. 

Titan1 wrote:
"Financially violent interest rate"?  A rate in the high 5's (where rates are today) is "financially violent"?  Come on...With historic inflation around 4% you're effectively borrowing...

"Financially violent interest rate"?  A rate in the high 5's (where rates are today) is "financially violent"?  Come on...With historic inflation around 4% you're effectively borrowing that money at around 2%...

If having a lien free home is your goal and your definition of owning a home...I've got bad news for you....Because by that definition (your definition) The reality is that even if you don't have a mortgage you-by your definition-don't actually own your home, because every year their is a new lien for property taxes...that if you don't pay, the government will foreclose and take your home away...So you are a debtor and occupant even if mortgage free.  

Anyway...If you're name is on the title of the home...you own it. That's the legal definition of home ownership.  People leverage THEIR equity in different ways, for different reasons, but that doesn't mean they don't own the home. 

But sure, paying off the mortgage is the ultimate goal...but waiting to buy until you've saved up to buy a home in cash is financially dumb, or waiting to say you own a home until the mortgage is paid off is an "idiot tier statement that nobody on earth agrees with"...its far better to leverage borrowed money, get into the home now...and then you can at least start paying down your own mortgage every month (rather than your landlords when you pay rent) and benefit from the appreciate over time...and do what you can to minimize the interest paid over time by accelerating the principal reduction, benefit from the tax write off of the interest and otherwise grow your net worth.  

Everything you’re saying is correct and I’m not capturing the nuance required on my phone and in these quick replies. 
Re: “violent rates” I mean that cost of property has gone up so bad that the interest sum is what’s violent not necessarily the rate but that’s on me for not clarifying. 

there’s a very fine line between rent and owning being a better choice. How long will you stay? What’s your down payment? What’s rent? If rent<interest then it’s not actually better to enter a mortgage. Doing these predatory FHA loans with 5% down has people paying 200-500 dollars PER YEAR in principle at first. That’s insane. This cannot be the goal. 

I understand everyone doesn’t have 50-100k down on their first house and everyone doesn’t have the privilege to “financially optimize” based on environment and not their personal position. 

Last thing - of the three people I know that bought with the intention of “making extra principle payments” is, in fact, not doing it. Yes its the right way to go but it doesn’t often happen. 

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Easy trick to save years off your mortgage; Ask your wife's boyfriend to move in and pay part of the bills.

 

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1 thing people are not calculating here on house inflation is massive red tape locally to get permits, etc. and government mandates (was especially bad in...

1 thing people are not calculating here on house inflation is massive red tape locally to get permits, etc. and government mandates (was especially bad in CA where I grew up). Add in ESA, CEQUA and other federal processes/regulations that add delays ($$$). We also keep hearing about a "Housing shortage crisis" that never ends because we have too damn many people in this country competing for the same basic necessities. It's a demand problem, not supply, and many opportunities exist in the supply chain for greedy people to charge more than if there was oversupply forcing pricing downwards.

Spoonguy wrote:

Zoning regulations are killing home prices in my area. And new houses are far more lavish than even 20 years ago.

when I was growing up in San Diego, there was a very common bumper sticker and T-shirt, hat slogan that said "make getting welfare as hard as getting building permits"

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OwenJakes wrote:
If you have a mortgage you are not a home owner. You are a debtor and occupant. The goal of a man is to OWN the home...

If you have a mortgage you are not a home owner. You are a debtor and occupant. 

The goal of a man is to OWN the home and not be on the hook for a a financially violent interest rate. Different discussion but the attitude in this thread seems to be that securing the mortgage and property is the goal. That is not the goal. The goal is independence. 

Titan1 wrote:
"Financially violent interest rate"?  A rate in the high 5's (where rates are today) is "financially violent"?  Come on...With historic inflation around 4% you're effectively borrowing...

"Financially violent interest rate"?  A rate in the high 5's (where rates are today) is "financially violent"?  Come on...With historic inflation around 4% you're effectively borrowing that money at around 2%...

If having a lien free home is your goal and your definition of owning a home...I've got bad news for you....Because by that definition (your definition) The reality is that even if you don't have a mortgage you-by your definition-don't actually own your home, because every year their is a new lien for property taxes...that if you don't pay, the government will foreclose and take your home away...So you are a debtor and occupant even if mortgage free.  

Anyway...If you're name is on the title of the home...you own it. That's the legal definition of home ownership.  People leverage THEIR equity in different ways, for different reasons, but that doesn't mean they don't own the home. 

But sure, paying off the mortgage is the ultimate goal...but waiting to buy until you've saved up to buy a home in cash is financially dumb, or waiting to say you own a home until the mortgage is paid off is an "idiot tier statement that nobody on earth agrees with"...its far better to leverage borrowed money, get into the home now...and then you can at least start paying down your own mortgage every month (rather than your landlords when you pay rent) and benefit from the appreciate over time...and do what you can to minimize the interest paid over time by accelerating the principal reduction, benefit from the tax write off of the interest and otherwise grow your net worth.  

OwenJakes wrote:
Everything you’re saying is correct and I’m not capturing the nuance required on my phone and in these quick replies. Re: “violent rates” I mean that cost...

Everything you’re saying is correct and I’m not capturing the nuance required on my phone and in these quick replies. 
Re: “violent rates” I mean that cost of property has gone up so bad that the interest sum is what’s violent not necessarily the rate but that’s on me for not clarifying. 

there’s a very fine line between rent and owning being a better choice. How long will you stay? What’s your down payment? What’s rent? If rent<interest then it’s not actually better to enter a mortgage. Doing these predatory FHA loans with 5% down has people paying 200-500 dollars PER YEAR in principle at first. That’s insane. This cannot be the goal. 

I understand everyone doesn’t have 50-100k down on their first house and everyone doesn’t have the privilege to “financially optimize” based on environment and not their personal position. 

Last thing - of the three people I know that bought with the intention of “making extra principle payments” is, in fact, not doing it. Yes its the right way to go but it doesn’t often happen. 

To truly calculate the cost of a mortgage, its the interest sum - minus inflation (though I don't usually factor this in, even though is valid)- appreciation - principal reduction - tax savings (from the tax write off) to really see what the mortgage is actually costing you.  Otherwise you are completely ignoring the net worth advantage of owning a home.  Run those numbers and you see the cost of that mortgage reduced significantly (and its reduced more the longer you own the home).  

For rent and owning...again...it's not as simple as monthly rent vs mortgage interest.  You have to factor appreciation, principal reduction and tax benefits from owning a home into the equation.  PLUS annual rent increases (which the tenant has no control over)...That usually means that a mortgage payment can be significantly higher than a monthly rent payment and still be cheaper, depending on how long you plan to keep the home.

Outside of a Non-QM interest only loan, there are zero scenarios in todays world where someone-ESPECIALLY with a "predatory" (they aren't) FHA loan-is paying $200-$500/YEAR on principal.  

Principal and interest on a $400K loan over 30 years at even 8% (and with the exception of about 1 week in 2022, rates haven't been that high in like 40 years) is $2935.  Interest due every month is $2666.  So even at 8% they are paying $2666 to interest/month, and $268 to principal PER MONTH or $3220 per YEAR.  

At 5.875% where rates are today, principal and interest payment on $400K is $2366.  Interest due is $1958...so they'd pay $407/month or $4892 Per year to interest. 
So you are way off base on your how much someone can expect to pay to principal.  

Someone would need a 55-60 year loan to be paying anywhere close to only $200-$500 per YEAR in interest.  (And those don't exist at the moment...and hopefully they never do.  They will just drive up home prices further.) 

Most people aren't disciplined enough to put extra principal on their loan...but it is very common to keep a loan for a few years and in a favorable rate market refinance to a 25 year loan or a 20 year loan, and eventually to a 15 and then 10 year loans...in a falling rate market again, that strategy will become viable. How long you pay interest is almost more important than the actual interest rate.  

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OwenJakes wrote:
If you have a mortgage you are not a home owner. You are a debtor and occupant. The goal of a man is to OWN the home...

If you have a mortgage you are not a home owner. You are a debtor and occupant. 

The goal of a man is to OWN the home and not be on the hook for a a financially violent interest rate. Different discussion but the attitude in this thread seems to be that securing the mortgage and property is the goal. That is not the goal. The goal is independence. 

If you have the right to appreciated gain you own the home for real world purposes.  The bank owns the debt and has collateral securing repayment.    Make your payments, unless you decide you want to walk away (which, morals aside, can be a rational decision in an underwater market)

For most people it takes sacrifice, and sometimes help, and smarts to buy the right way (understanding total costs across insurance and any property taxes) and smarts and luck to be in the right location at the right time.  And then managing total debt - again that sacrifice thing.

You are correct that interest is front loaded, which is why this 50 year mortgage proposal is a gift to lenders, not homebuyers.   All the better reason not to do a zero down or interest only balloon loan unless you're not planning to stay long and are confident home prices will increase - the combination that turned everything into shit in 2007-2010.

 

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Titan1 wrote:
"Financially violent interest rate"?  A rate in the high 5's (where rates are today) is "financially violent"?  Come on...With historic inflation around 4% you're effectively borrowing...

"Financially violent interest rate"?  A rate in the high 5's (where rates are today) is "financially violent"?  Come on...With historic inflation around 4% you're effectively borrowing that money at around 2%...

If having a lien free home is your goal and your definition of owning a home...I've got bad news for you....Because by that definition (your definition) The reality is that even if you don't have a mortgage you-by your definition-don't actually own your home, because every year their is a new lien for property taxes...that if you don't pay, the government will foreclose and take your home away...So you are a debtor and occupant even if mortgage free.  

Anyway...If you're name is on the title of the home...you own it. That's the legal definition of home ownership.  People leverage THEIR equity in different ways, for different reasons, but that doesn't mean they don't own the home. 

But sure, paying off the mortgage is the ultimate goal...but waiting to buy until you've saved up to buy a home in cash is financially dumb, or waiting to say you own a home until the mortgage is paid off is an "idiot tier statement that nobody on earth agrees with"...its far better to leverage borrowed money, get into the home now...and then you can at least start paying down your own mortgage every month (rather than your landlords when you pay rent) and benefit from the appreciate over time...and do what you can to minimize the interest paid over time by accelerating the principal reduction, benefit from the tax write off of the interest and otherwise grow your net worth.  

OwenJakes wrote:
Everything you’re saying is correct and I’m not capturing the nuance required on my phone and in these quick replies. Re: “violent rates” I mean that cost...

Everything you’re saying is correct and I’m not capturing the nuance required on my phone and in these quick replies. 
Re: “violent rates” I mean that cost of property has gone up so bad that the interest sum is what’s violent not necessarily the rate but that’s on me for not clarifying. 

there’s a very fine line between rent and owning being a better choice. How long will you stay? What’s your down payment? What’s rent? If rent<interest then it’s not actually better to enter a mortgage. Doing these predatory FHA loans with 5% down has people paying 200-500 dollars PER YEAR in principle at first. That’s insane. This cannot be the goal. 

I understand everyone doesn’t have 50-100k down on their first house and everyone doesn’t have the privilege to “financially optimize” based on environment and not their personal position. 

Last thing - of the three people I know that bought with the intention of “making extra principle payments” is, in fact, not doing it. Yes its the right way to go but it doesn’t often happen. 

Titan1 wrote:
To truly calculate the cost of a mortgage, its the interest sum - minus inflation (though I don't usually factor this in, even though is valid)-...

To truly calculate the cost of a mortgage, its the interest sum - minus inflation (though I don't usually factor this in, even though is valid)- appreciation - principal reduction - tax savings (from the tax write off) to really see what the mortgage is actually costing you.  Otherwise you are completely ignoring the net worth advantage of owning a home.  Run those numbers and you see the cost of that mortgage reduced significantly (and its reduced more the longer you own the home).  

For rent and owning...again...it's not as simple as monthly rent vs mortgage interest.  You have to factor appreciation, principal reduction and tax benefits from owning a home into the equation.  PLUS annual rent increases (which the tenant has no control over)...That usually means that a mortgage payment can be significantly higher than a monthly rent payment and still be cheaper, depending on how long you plan to keep the home.

Outside of a Non-QM interest only loan, there are zero scenarios in todays world where someone-ESPECIALLY with a "predatory" (they aren't) FHA loan-is paying $200-$500/YEAR on principal.  

Principal and interest on a $400K loan over 30 years at even 8% (and with the exception of about 1 week in 2022, rates haven't been that high in like 40 years) is $2935.  Interest due every month is $2666.  So even at 8% they are paying $2666 to interest/month, and $268 to principal PER MONTH or $3220 per YEAR.  

At 5.875% where rates are today, principal and interest payment on $400K is $2366.  Interest due is $1958...so they'd pay $407/month or $4892 Per year to interest. 
So you are way off base on your how much someone can expect to pay to principal.  

Someone would need a 55-60 year loan to be paying anywhere close to only $200-$500 per YEAR in interest.  (And those don't exist at the moment...and hopefully they never do.  They will just drive up home prices further.) 

Most people aren't disciplined enough to put extra principal on their loan...but it is very common to keep a loan for a few years and in a favorable rate market refinance to a 25 year loan or a 20 year loan, and eventually to a 15 and then 10 year loans...in a falling rate market again, that strategy will become viable. How long you pay interest is almost more important than the actual interest rate.  

Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two ago I had the random car thought that although I hate interest, a portion of that interest I should re-accrue/offset through appreciation, renovation, and write-offs. Maybe it’s not necessary to do as much as I’m doing then..

for us, my biggest deal is keeping affordability on a 15 year mortgage and paying that down quickly. I just want a small house payment is all. 

Also, I was spitballing my numbers on principle recovery rate and even on a 200k loan it’s like 2-3k in the first couple years.

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it’s not as bad as I thought 

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OwenJakes wrote:
If you have a mortgage you are not a home owner. You are a debtor and occupant. The goal of a man is to OWN the home...

If you have a mortgage you are not a home owner. You are a debtor and occupant. 

The goal of a man is to OWN the home and not be on the hook for a a financially violent interest rate. Different discussion but the attitude in this thread seems to be that securing the mortgage and property is the goal. That is not the goal. The goal is independence. 

If you have the right to appreciated gain you own the home for real world purposes.  The bank owns the debt and has collateral securing repayment...

If you have the right to appreciated gain you own the home for real world purposes.  The bank owns the debt and has collateral securing repayment.    Make your payments, unless you decide you want to walk away (which, morals aside, can be a rational decision in an underwater market)

For most people it takes sacrifice, and sometimes help, and smarts to buy the right way (understanding total costs across insurance and any property taxes) and smarts and luck to be in the right location at the right time.  And then managing total debt - again that sacrifice thing.

You are correct that interest is front loaded, which is why this 50 year mortgage proposal is a gift to lenders, not homebuyers.   All the better reason not to do a zero down or interest only balloon loan unless you're not planning to stay long and are confident home prices will increase - the combination that turned everything into shit in 2007-2010.

 

The 50 year mortgage is literally insane. Feels like an SNL sketch to be honest. 

I’m sure many felt that way when 30 year mortgages came out though. 

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OwenJakes wrote:
Everything you’re saying is correct and I’m not capturing the nuance required on my phone and in these quick replies. Re: “violent rates” I mean that cost...

Everything you’re saying is correct and I’m not capturing the nuance required on my phone and in these quick replies. 
Re: “violent rates” I mean that cost of property has gone up so bad that the interest sum is what’s violent not necessarily the rate but that’s on me for not clarifying. 

there’s a very fine line between rent and owning being a better choice. How long will you stay? What’s your down payment? What’s rent? If rent<interest then it’s not actually better to enter a mortgage. Doing these predatory FHA loans with 5% down has people paying 200-500 dollars PER YEAR in principle at first. That’s insane. This cannot be the goal. 

I understand everyone doesn’t have 50-100k down on their first house and everyone doesn’t have the privilege to “financially optimize” based on environment and not their personal position. 

Last thing - of the three people I know that bought with the intention of “making extra principle payments” is, in fact, not doing it. Yes its the right way to go but it doesn’t often happen. 

Titan1 wrote:
To truly calculate the cost of a mortgage, its the interest sum - minus inflation (though I don't usually factor this in, even though is valid)-...

To truly calculate the cost of a mortgage, its the interest sum - minus inflation (though I don't usually factor this in, even though is valid)- appreciation - principal reduction - tax savings (from the tax write off) to really see what the mortgage is actually costing you.  Otherwise you are completely ignoring the net worth advantage of owning a home.  Run those numbers and you see the cost of that mortgage reduced significantly (and its reduced more the longer you own the home).  

For rent and owning...again...it's not as simple as monthly rent vs mortgage interest.  You have to factor appreciation, principal reduction and tax benefits from owning a home into the equation.  PLUS annual rent increases (which the tenant has no control over)...That usually means that a mortgage payment can be significantly higher than a monthly rent payment and still be cheaper, depending on how long you plan to keep the home.

Outside of a Non-QM interest only loan, there are zero scenarios in todays world where someone-ESPECIALLY with a "predatory" (they aren't) FHA loan-is paying $200-$500/YEAR on principal.  

Principal and interest on a $400K loan over 30 years at even 8% (and with the exception of about 1 week in 2022, rates haven't been that high in like 40 years) is $2935.  Interest due every month is $2666.  So even at 8% they are paying $2666 to interest/month, and $268 to principal PER MONTH or $3220 per YEAR.  

At 5.875% where rates are today, principal and interest payment on $400K is $2366.  Interest due is $1958...so they'd pay $407/month or $4892 Per year to interest. 
So you are way off base on your how much someone can expect to pay to principal.  

Someone would need a 55-60 year loan to be paying anywhere close to only $200-$500 per YEAR in interest.  (And those don't exist at the moment...and hopefully they never do.  They will just drive up home prices further.) 

Most people aren't disciplined enough to put extra principal on their loan...but it is very common to keep a loan for a few years and in a favorable rate market refinance to a 25 year loan or a 20 year loan, and eventually to a 15 and then 10 year loans...in a falling rate market again, that strategy will become viable. How long you pay interest is almost more important than the actual interest rate.  

OwenJakes wrote:
Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two...

Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two ago I had the random car thought that although I hate interest, a portion of that interest I should re-accrue/offset through appreciation, renovation, and write-offs. Maybe it’s not necessary to do as much as I’m doing then..

for us, my biggest deal is keeping affordability on a 15 year mortgage and paying that down quickly. I just want a small house payment is all. 

Also, I was spitballing my numbers on principle recovery rate and even on a 200k loan it’s like 2-3k in the first couple years.

IMG 2734 5.jpeg?VersionId=

it’s not as bad as I thought 

If you've got enough capitol for a large down payment...you need to be factoring the rate of return you are getting on that money...if you've got $100K-$150K in capital, and its earning 10% interest (i have no idea...just an example on both numbers)...and you can get a mortgage at 6%...its more beneficial to leave some/most/all (depending on the payment you want) in the market earning 10% because you still come out ahead 4% on it (no reason to stop earning 10% APY, to save 6% APR).  That's where you can start seeing the value of leveraging debt to make money.  If you've got it sitting in your bank earning.75% APY...then just put it all down on the house...

If that makes sense?  Getting the shortest loan term you can (15 year/10 year loans) is the way to go if you can swing the payment and you will keep the home long enough to pay the loan off.  

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Titan1 wrote:
To truly calculate the cost of a mortgage, its the interest sum - minus inflation (though I don't usually factor this in, even though is valid)-...

To truly calculate the cost of a mortgage, its the interest sum - minus inflation (though I don't usually factor this in, even though is valid)- appreciation - principal reduction - tax savings (from the tax write off) to really see what the mortgage is actually costing you.  Otherwise you are completely ignoring the net worth advantage of owning a home.  Run those numbers and you see the cost of that mortgage reduced significantly (and its reduced more the longer you own the home).  

For rent and owning...again...it's not as simple as monthly rent vs mortgage interest.  You have to factor appreciation, principal reduction and tax benefits from owning a home into the equation.  PLUS annual rent increases (which the tenant has no control over)...That usually means that a mortgage payment can be significantly higher than a monthly rent payment and still be cheaper, depending on how long you plan to keep the home.

Outside of a Non-QM interest only loan, there are zero scenarios in todays world where someone-ESPECIALLY with a "predatory" (they aren't) FHA loan-is paying $200-$500/YEAR on principal.  

Principal and interest on a $400K loan over 30 years at even 8% (and with the exception of about 1 week in 2022, rates haven't been that high in like 40 years) is $2935.  Interest due every month is $2666.  So even at 8% they are paying $2666 to interest/month, and $268 to principal PER MONTH or $3220 per YEAR.  

At 5.875% where rates are today, principal and interest payment on $400K is $2366.  Interest due is $1958...so they'd pay $407/month or $4892 Per year to interest. 
So you are way off base on your how much someone can expect to pay to principal.  

Someone would need a 55-60 year loan to be paying anywhere close to only $200-$500 per YEAR in interest.  (And those don't exist at the moment...and hopefully they never do.  They will just drive up home prices further.) 

Most people aren't disciplined enough to put extra principal on their loan...but it is very common to keep a loan for a few years and in a favorable rate market refinance to a 25 year loan or a 20 year loan, and eventually to a 15 and then 10 year loans...in a falling rate market again, that strategy will become viable. How long you pay interest is almost more important than the actual interest rate.  

OwenJakes wrote:
Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two...

Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two ago I had the random car thought that although I hate interest, a portion of that interest I should re-accrue/offset through appreciation, renovation, and write-offs. Maybe it’s not necessary to do as much as I’m doing then..

for us, my biggest deal is keeping affordability on a 15 year mortgage and paying that down quickly. I just want a small house payment is all. 

Also, I was spitballing my numbers on principle recovery rate and even on a 200k loan it’s like 2-3k in the first couple years.

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it’s not as bad as I thought 

Titan1 wrote:
If you've got enough capitol for a large down payment...you need to be factoring the rate of return you are getting on that money...if you've got...

If you've got enough capitol for a large down payment...you need to be factoring the rate of return you are getting on that money...if you've got $100K-$150K in capital, and its earning 10% interest (i have no idea...just an example on both numbers)...and you can get a mortgage at 6%...its more beneficial to leave some/most/all (depending on the payment you want) in the market earning 10% because you still come out ahead 4% on it (no reason to stop earning 10% APY, to save 6% APR).  That's where you can start seeing the value of leveraging debt to make money.  If you've got it sitting in your bank earning.75% APY...then just put it all down on the house...

If that makes sense?  Getting the shortest loan term you can (15 year/10 year loans) is the way to go if you can swing the payment and you will keep the home long enough to pay the loan off.  

For the readers I don’t care if we’re off topic at this point it’s the offseason. 

Right now I’ve got it sitting in a fluid CD account that has no penalties whatsoever for withdraw doing about 4.8%. I’m not sure what else I could do with it to consistently outpace a mortgage debt so that’s what I did. 

My biggest mistake was not foreseeing I’d sit on a sum of cash I built a few years ago. In hindsight I should have gotten with a financial advisor/wealth manager and done better but I’ve been “about to buy a house!!” For two years now and just watching the market in confusion. I feel like the ship has sailed and I just need to buy something and move on honestly. 

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OwenJakes wrote:
Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two...

Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two ago I had the random car thought that although I hate interest, a portion of that interest I should re-accrue/offset through appreciation, renovation, and write-offs. Maybe it’s not necessary to do as much as I’m doing then..

for us, my biggest deal is keeping affordability on a 15 year mortgage and paying that down quickly. I just want a small house payment is all. 

Also, I was spitballing my numbers on principle recovery rate and even on a 200k loan it’s like 2-3k in the first couple years.

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it’s not as bad as I thought 

Titan1 wrote:
If you've got enough capitol for a large down payment...you need to be factoring the rate of return you are getting on that money...if you've got...

If you've got enough capitol for a large down payment...you need to be factoring the rate of return you are getting on that money...if you've got $100K-$150K in capital, and its earning 10% interest (i have no idea...just an example on both numbers)...and you can get a mortgage at 6%...its more beneficial to leave some/most/all (depending on the payment you want) in the market earning 10% because you still come out ahead 4% on it (no reason to stop earning 10% APY, to save 6% APR).  That's where you can start seeing the value of leveraging debt to make money.  If you've got it sitting in your bank earning.75% APY...then just put it all down on the house...

If that makes sense?  Getting the shortest loan term you can (15 year/10 year loans) is the way to go if you can swing the payment and you will keep the home long enough to pay the loan off.  

OwenJakes wrote:
For the readers I don’t care if we’re off topic at this point it’s the offseason. Right now I’ve got it sitting in a fluid CD account...

For the readers I don’t care if we’re off topic at this point it’s the offseason. 

Right now I’ve got it sitting in a fluid CD account that has no penalties whatsoever for withdraw doing about 4.8%. I’m not sure what else I could do with it to consistently outpace a mortgage debt so that’s what I did. 

My biggest mistake was not foreseeing I’d sit on a sum of cash I built a few years ago. In hindsight I should have gotten with a financial advisor/wealth manager and done better but I’ve been “about to buy a house!!” For two years now and just watching the market in confusion. I feel like the ship has sailed and I just need to buy something and move on honestly. 

At that ROI on the CD, its about a wash...Leave it in the CD earning 5%...or pull it out and put down on a house so aren't paying 5%+ on it.  It would probably come down to payment if I'm you (put down as much as you need to to get the payment you are looking for).

Keep in mind, rates are projected to keep falling over the next 24 months...so it could put you in a position to refinance in the near future.    

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OwenJakes wrote:
Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two...

Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two ago I had the random car thought that although I hate interest, a portion of that interest I should re-accrue/offset through appreciation, renovation, and write-offs. Maybe it’s not necessary to do as much as I’m doing then..

for us, my biggest deal is keeping affordability on a 15 year mortgage and paying that down quickly. I just want a small house payment is all. 

Also, I was spitballing my numbers on principle recovery rate and even on a 200k loan it’s like 2-3k in the first couple years.

IMG 2734 5.jpeg?VersionId=

it’s not as bad as I thought 

Generally home loans are thought of differently than other loans like auto loans because historically real estate is an appreciating asset. Keeping real estate appreciating is arguably one of the main reasons the dollar is a fiat currency but that's a different topic. At this point it's hard to say where the market will go and how much appreciation there will be in the next 10 years given where prices are at now. I understand wanting to carry a low debt load but it's also a good idea to keep some cash on hand and not put all your life savings into a down payment if you can swing a mortgage with a little bit higher payment on a house you like, especially if it's an older house, being surprised with needing a new roof HVAC or sewer line is not fun if you don't have reserves. 

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JBecker 72 wrote:
For you guys who think a house will never come, believe me, I get it. I was in those same shoes earlier this year when my...

For you guys who think a house will never come, believe me, I get it. I was in those same shoes earlier this year when my townhouse lease was up and my wife and I were trying to figure out what to do. We wound up moving about two hours away and the next state over. Luckily we kept the same commute. We had a little over an hour before and we still do, just coming from the opposite direction. I didn’t really want to have to move, but we had to do what we had to do. I know many here don’t want to hear this, but if you can only afford rent in your area, you either need to move away, or figure out how to make enough to afford that area. 

I didn’t buy a house until I turned 40. Had I had my shit together in 2012 I could have scooped up something closer to where I wanted to be at a great price. But hindsight is 20/20. 

On the plus side I’m a lot closer to multiple motocross tracks now. So that’s cool. 

Stoked for you 💪🏼

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OwenJakes wrote:
Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two...

Great points and you’re changing my mind a little. I have been working towards putting down 50-70% on a new home and a week or two ago I had the random car thought that although I hate interest, a portion of that interest I should re-accrue/offset through appreciation, renovation, and write-offs. Maybe it’s not necessary to do as much as I’m doing then..

for us, my biggest deal is keeping affordability on a 15 year mortgage and paying that down quickly. I just want a small house payment is all. 

Also, I was spitballing my numbers on principle recovery rate and even on a 200k loan it’s like 2-3k in the first couple years.

IMG 2734 5.jpeg?VersionId=

it’s not as bad as I thought 

early wrote:
Generally home loans are thought of differently than other loans like auto loans because historically real estate is an appreciating asset. Keeping real estate appreciating is...

Generally home loans are thought of differently than other loans like auto loans because historically real estate is an appreciating asset. Keeping real estate appreciating is arguably one of the main reasons the dollar is a fiat currency but that's a different topic. At this point it's hard to say where the market will go and how much appreciation there will be in the next 10 years given where prices are at now. I understand wanting to carry a low debt load but it's also a good idea to keep some cash on hand and not put all your life savings into a down payment if you can swing a mortgage with a little bit higher payment on a house you like, especially if it's an older house, being surprised with needing a new roof HVAC or sewer line is not fun if you don't have reserves. 

We're in a pretty cheap area thankfully. My number one goal is to enter my 40's with zero debt and begin building some real wealth for my children, church, and whoever God puts in my life that 'needs some shade from my tree in the summer heat'. 

Nothing here is glamorous and I bet I end up in something mediocre but my goal was never to be lavish honestly. I have seen so many friends and colleagues that have so much of their energy and capacity get sucked dry by money-related issues I would rather live lean and not fret over stuff. So I'm with you, I want to keep plenty of cash stored away in case my air goes out in july with a baby or something. paying interest on parts of your house that you're also paying interest on seems pretty crummy.

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Kyle978 wrote:
I bought a house in mid 2023, had to due to relocation for work. Was "lucky" to get a 6.27% interest rate at the time. Put...

I bought a house in mid 2023, had to due to relocation for work. Was "lucky" to get a 6.27% interest rate at the time. Put 20% down, and since then the house has lost 12% value. Just started to pay 1.5x my mortgage to chip away at some principal so I'm not completely fucked if the value keeps dropping like it has. If I sold my house right now I'd lose over $50k of the down payment despite paying over $120,000 in mortgage payments since mid 2023. And this is the goal everyone is trying to achieve?

My wife and I both have great income but we do get taxed to death. I spend too much on vehicles, moto and other toys even though I can technically afford it. I do send a good chunk monthly to my financial advisor who has done well for me the last few years. But I should have more to show for. 

If you had told me when I was 18 what my current household income would be, I would have assumed I would never even think of the cost of things and I'd be stress-free. 

I could scale back the lifestyle a bit, but I could also die tomorrow. I saw my dad live below his means and sacrifice his whole adult life to get cancer and die at 44, didn't really get to enjoy the fruits of his and my moms efforts. 

I'm 35 and already have the mindset that I've "worked hard and sacrificed" enough to justify how I've chosen to live. Maybe that's a problem, maybe it's justified. The company I run spends 8 figures to profit 7 figures and we take on big chunks of debt to scale, so I feel l've gotten a little numb to my personal spending. 

I have learned a lot of the folks you think are wealthy really just have access to massive lines of credit, and are on the edge of losing everything at any given moment. A lot of middle-class folks who feel like they are struggling are actually better prepared than people they assume are "rich". That includes people living in $5m+ houses, many are actually pretty cash-poor. Paying off one loan to open up two more. 

I don't know what I'm trying to get at, other than this is all a complete mind fuck. The MF'in' American dream, I suppose. 

Our economy is built on complete BS, makes it hard to believe you can ever actually "get ahead".

 

Quit worrying about other people. Every conscientious 35 yr old worries about finances, I did. Stay your course. Watch what you pay that financial advisor though. If you stay married, stay employed, keep your kids a priority, and invest you'll be fine. Don't be other people's fool either.

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Again, interesting reading. I'm at the end of the spectrum compared to many here. 62 YO, working since I was 15, and planning on retiring in 18 months. I've even picked the date - July 30th, 2027 will be my last day employed. I'm about to move to a life of drawing down the cushion I've built (mostly over the last 25 years) instead of relying on income, and it's scary as hell. Healthcare costs, inflation, taxes, how long will I live all make me worry that what I've saved/invested won't be enough. I have a considerable sum, but the future is full of unknowns.  I don't even know where I'm going to live. It won't be Oregon. Weather sucks, cost of living is stupid. 

My son and I went pretty hard on motocross from his age of 5 until he turned 18. I'm not sure how much I spent on this sport over those years, but RMATV loves me, I think we had 12-15 bikes between us, the toy hauler, a truck to tow it, and endless gate/race fees. His last 2 years of racing he did over 100 gate drops each year, and we were mostly doing local stuff! Had to have been $100-150K, maybe more. And I don't regret a dime of it. Man, we have some memories both good and bad, and met some really good people along the way. Now he is a solid, outgoing young man with an understanding of risk versus reward that many his age don't have. And I have some really cool $6 trophies from the slow old man classes I raced. We are done racing together (I am done entirely) and damn it I miss it. The feeling of pride when he rode well, and when I rode well and he noticed, I just can't get from anything else. 

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Kyle978 wrote:
I bought a house in mid 2023, had to due to relocation for work. Was "lucky" to get a 6.27% interest rate at the time. Put...

I bought a house in mid 2023, had to due to relocation for work. Was "lucky" to get a 6.27% interest rate at the time. Put 20% down, and since then the house has lost 12% value. Just started to pay 1.5x my mortgage to chip away at some principal so I'm not completely fucked if the value keeps dropping like it has. If I sold my house right now I'd lose over $50k of the down payment despite paying over $120,000 in mortgage payments since mid 2023. And this is the goal everyone is trying to achieve?

My wife and I both have great income but we do get taxed to death. I spend too much on vehicles, moto and other toys even though I can technically afford it. I do send a good chunk monthly to my financial advisor who has done well for me the last few years. But I should have more to show for. 

If you had told me when I was 18 what my current household income would be, I would have assumed I would never even think of the cost of things and I'd be stress-free. 

I could scale back the lifestyle a bit, but I could also die tomorrow. I saw my dad live below his means and sacrifice his whole adult life to get cancer and die at 44, didn't really get to enjoy the fruits of his and my moms efforts. 

I'm 35 and already have the mindset that I've "worked hard and sacrificed" enough to justify how I've chosen to live. Maybe that's a problem, maybe it's justified. The company I run spends 8 figures to profit 7 figures and we take on big chunks of debt to scale, so I feel l've gotten a little numb to my personal spending. 

I have learned a lot of the folks you think are wealthy really just have access to massive lines of credit, and are on the edge of losing everything at any given moment. A lot of middle-class folks who feel like they are struggling are actually better prepared than people they assume are "rich". That includes people living in $5m+ houses, many are actually pretty cash-poor. Paying off one loan to open up two more. 

I don't know what I'm trying to get at, other than this is all a complete mind fuck. The MF'in' American dream, I suppose. 

Our economy is built on complete BS, makes it hard to believe you can ever actually "get ahead".

 

Spoonguy wrote:
Quit worrying about other people. Every conscientious 35 yr old worries about finances, I did. Stay your course. Watch what you pay that financial advisor though...

Quit worrying about other people. Every conscientious 35 yr old worries about finances, I did. Stay your course. Watch what you pay that financial advisor though. If you stay married, stay employed, keep your kids a priority, and invest you'll be fine. Don't be other people's fool either.

One other thing if your finances worry you, or concern you, fuck the dirt bikes. The addittional peace of mind is worth it for now, you can alwaus return to them when you feel more secure. Focus on your career and family for now, nothing matters more.

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Spoonguy wrote:
One other thing if your finances worry you, or concern you, fuck the dirt bikes. The addittional peace of mind is worth it for now, you...

One other thing if your finances worry you, or concern you, fuck the dirt bikes. The addittional peace of mind is worth it for now, you can alwaus return to them when you feel more secure. Focus on your career and family for now, nothing matters more.

Mental and physical health are important. Instead of a gym membership you can have a dirt bike. You'll need to ride it 3 times a week to make it worth it 😁. 

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Are you serious?If you don't make enough money, change careers to start at the bottom somewhere else? ⛔If you don't make enough money, start a business...

Are you serious?

If you don't make enough money, change careers to start at the bottom somewhere else? ⛔
If you don't make enough money, start a business with the money you don't have? ⛔
Go to school? The recent grad job market is awful right now according to news outlets and the experiences I hear from many people. If you already aren't making enough money, how will you pay for school? ⛔

Doing better at your current job, OK I can see how this could make sense in some situations, but there are only so many higher paid positions and could take years before you are financially comfortable (if ever). Then you have the companies that don't want to promote the high performers because they'll need to hire 2 people to backfill.

 

This is a whole lot of nonsense. 😂😂 My goodness… A lot of people get into a career that will never pay well. And wait too long to do something about it. I notice you didn’t mention getting into a trade. In a lot of states trade jobs and union trades pay very well. You act like it’s impossible to have a good paying career. 🤦‍♂️

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12/9/2025 4:33pm Edited Date/Time 12/9/2025 4:44pm
Kyle978 wrote:
I bought a house in mid 2023, had to due to relocation for work. Was "lucky" to get a 6.27% interest rate at the time. Put...

I bought a house in mid 2023, had to due to relocation for work. Was "lucky" to get a 6.27% interest rate at the time. Put 20% down, and since then the house has lost 12% value. Just started to pay 1.5x my mortgage to chip away at some principal so I'm not completely fucked if the value keeps dropping like it has. If I sold my house right now I'd lose over $50k of the down payment despite paying over $120,000 in mortgage payments since mid 2023. And this is the goal everyone is trying to achieve?

My wife and I both have great income but we do get taxed to death. I spend too much on vehicles, moto and other toys even though I can technically afford it. I do send a good chunk monthly to my financial advisor who has done well for me the last few years. But I should have more to show for. 

If you had told me when I was 18 what my current household income would be, I would have assumed I would never even think of the cost of things and I'd be stress-free. 

I could scale back the lifestyle a bit, but I could also die tomorrow. I saw my dad live below his means and sacrifice his whole adult life to get cancer and die at 44, didn't really get to enjoy the fruits of his and my moms efforts. 

I'm 35 and already have the mindset that I've "worked hard and sacrificed" enough to justify how I've chosen to live. Maybe that's a problem, maybe it's justified. The company I run spends 8 figures to profit 7 figures and we take on big chunks of debt to scale, so I feel l've gotten a little numb to my personal spending. 

I have learned a lot of the folks you think are wealthy really just have access to massive lines of credit, and are on the edge of losing everything at any given moment. A lot of middle-class folks who feel like they are struggling are actually better prepared than people they assume are "rich". That includes people living in $5m+ houses, many are actually pretty cash-poor. Paying off one loan to open up two more. 

I don't know what I'm trying to get at, other than this is all a complete mind fuck. The MF'in' American dream, I suppose. 

Our economy is built on complete BS, makes it hard to believe you can ever actually "get ahead".

 

You bought a house when the housing market was out of control and the price of homes was the highest we’ve ever seen. Did you have to buy a house at this time? Could you have rented a small apartment for the time being until the housing market settled down a little? Sounds like you made a mistake and bought a house at the worst possible time… And of course the value of the house went down since 2023.. Were you expecting the value to keep going up after record high home prices during the time you bought the house? 

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OwenJakes wrote:
For the readers I don’t care if we’re off topic at this point it’s the offseason. Right now I’ve got it sitting in a fluid CD account...

For the readers I don’t care if we’re off topic at this point it’s the offseason. 

Right now I’ve got it sitting in a fluid CD account that has no penalties whatsoever for withdraw doing about 4.8%. I’m not sure what else I could do with it to consistently outpace a mortgage debt so that’s what I did. 

My biggest mistake was not foreseeing I’d sit on a sum of cash I built a few years ago. In hindsight I should have gotten with a financial advisor/wealth manager and done better but I’ve been “about to buy a house!!” For two years now and just watching the market in confusion. I feel like the ship has sailed and I just need to buy something and move on honestly. 

My .02 would be put down 20% to avoid PMI and keep the rest invested. 

I closed on my house in June and was able to have the seller cover all closing costs which was great. That saved us about $12k right there. Interest rates may still be high but sellers are having to come to the table willing to negotiate now in many areas. 

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Kyle978 wrote:
I bought a house in mid 2023, had to due to relocation for work. Was "lucky" to get a 6.27% interest rate at the time. Put...

I bought a house in mid 2023, had to due to relocation for work. Was "lucky" to get a 6.27% interest rate at the time. Put 20% down, and since then the house has lost 12% value. Just started to pay 1.5x my mortgage to chip away at some principal so I'm not completely fucked if the value keeps dropping like it has. If I sold my house right now I'd lose over $50k of the down payment despite paying over $120,000 in mortgage payments since mid 2023. And this is the goal everyone is trying to achieve?

My wife and I both have great income but we do get taxed to death. I spend too much on vehicles, moto and other toys even though I can technically afford it. I do send a good chunk monthly to my financial advisor who has done well for me the last few years. But I should have more to show for. 

If you had told me when I was 18 what my current household income would be, I would have assumed I would never even think of the cost of things and I'd be stress-free. 

I could scale back the lifestyle a bit, but I could also die tomorrow. I saw my dad live below his means and sacrifice his whole adult life to get cancer and die at 44, didn't really get to enjoy the fruits of his and my moms efforts. 

I'm 35 and already have the mindset that I've "worked hard and sacrificed" enough to justify how I've chosen to live. Maybe that's a problem, maybe it's justified. The company I run spends 8 figures to profit 7 figures and we take on big chunks of debt to scale, so I feel l've gotten a little numb to my personal spending. 

I have learned a lot of the folks you think are wealthy really just have access to massive lines of credit, and are on the edge of losing everything at any given moment. A lot of middle-class folks who feel like they are struggling are actually better prepared than people they assume are "rich". That includes people living in $5m+ houses, many are actually pretty cash-poor. Paying off one loan to open up two more. 

I don't know what I'm trying to get at, other than this is all a complete mind fuck. The MF'in' American dream, I suppose. 

Our economy is built on complete BS, makes it hard to believe you can ever actually "get ahead".

 

You bought a house when the housing market was out of control and the price of homes was the highest we’ve ever seen. Did you have...

You bought a house when the housing market was out of control and the price of homes was the highest we’ve ever seen. Did you have to buy a house at this time? Could you have rented a small apartment for the time being until the housing market settled down a little? Sounds like you made a mistake and bought a house at the worst possible time… And of course the value of the house went down since 2023.. Were you expecting the value to keep going up after record high home prices during the time you bought the house? 

I was 32 and felt like it was time. I’ve always been a renter and we wanted to put our own touch on a home as well as not move every couple years, wife works remote and needs an office plus space to roam, I work from home a couple days a week, two large dogs that need a yard…something like an apartment wasn’t really appealing. We would still be in one waiting for things to hit rock bottom. No thanks. 
 

Our current mortgage is about 15% of our monthly income after tax, we bought way under what we could afford knowing the bubble had to burst at some point. 

We will be alright, just thought I’d point out that buying a home isn’t the end all be all that some make it out to be. I rented for a lot of years so I could easily bail to chase career opportunities without being tied up to a home. I made a lot more money chasing those opportunities than I ever would have gained equity in a home. 

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12/9/2025 5:14pm Edited Date/Time 12/9/2025 5:28pm
Spoonguy wrote:
One other thing if your finances worry you, or concern you, fuck the dirt bikes. The addittional peace of mind is worth it for now, you...

One other thing if your finances worry you, or concern you, fuck the dirt bikes. The addittional peace of mind is worth it for now, you can alwaus return to them when you feel more secure. Focus on your career and family for now, nothing matters more.

I appreciate the advice. 

I gave up moto through most of my 20’s to get myself in a better spot. 

I’m in a great spot to ride and race these days with phenomenal health insurance and our investors also being moto guys or high-risk sport participants. They love that I race. Fully support it and know the risks that come with it. 

Despite that I still take months off to focus on specific projects or milestones that require my full attention. 

I’ll be alright, thought I’d be transparent on my experiences a bit. I feel I’m in a great spot in a lot of ways but still stress a bit due to my own spending habits and the current cost of living. 

So many people were patting me on the back for having a solid down payment and “investing” in a house. I feel some people are brain washed into the belief that it’s the only way to grow your wealth.

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Kyle978 wrote:
I bought a house in mid 2023, had to due to relocation for work. Was "lucky" to get a 6.27% interest rate at the time. Put...

I bought a house in mid 2023, had to due to relocation for work. Was "lucky" to get a 6.27% interest rate at the time. Put 20% down, and since then the house has lost 12% value. Just started to pay 1.5x my mortgage to chip away at some principal so I'm not completely fucked if the value keeps dropping like it has. If I sold my house right now I'd lose over $50k of the down payment despite paying over $120,000 in mortgage payments since mid 2023. And this is the goal everyone is trying to achieve?

My wife and I both have great income but we do get taxed to death. I spend too much on vehicles, moto and other toys even though I can technically afford it. I do send a good chunk monthly to my financial advisor who has done well for me the last few years. But I should have more to show for. 

If you had told me when I was 18 what my current household income would be, I would have assumed I would never even think of the cost of things and I'd be stress-free. 

I could scale back the lifestyle a bit, but I could also die tomorrow. I saw my dad live below his means and sacrifice his whole adult life to get cancer and die at 44, didn't really get to enjoy the fruits of his and my moms efforts. 

I'm 35 and already have the mindset that I've "worked hard and sacrificed" enough to justify how I've chosen to live. Maybe that's a problem, maybe it's justified. The company I run spends 8 figures to profit 7 figures and we take on big chunks of debt to scale, so I feel l've gotten a little numb to my personal spending. 

I have learned a lot of the folks you think are wealthy really just have access to massive lines of credit, and are on the edge of losing everything at any given moment. A lot of middle-class folks who feel like they are struggling are actually better prepared than people they assume are "rich". That includes people living in $5m+ houses, many are actually pretty cash-poor. Paying off one loan to open up two more. 

I don't know what I'm trying to get at, other than this is all a complete mind fuck. The MF'in' American dream, I suppose. 

Our economy is built on complete BS, makes it hard to believe you can ever actually "get ahead".

 

You bought a house when the housing market was out of control and the price of homes was the highest we’ve ever seen. Did you have...

You bought a house when the housing market was out of control and the price of homes was the highest we’ve ever seen. Did you have to buy a house at this time? Could you have rented a small apartment for the time being until the housing market settled down a little? Sounds like you made a mistake and bought a house at the worst possible time… And of course the value of the house went down since 2023.. Were you expecting the value to keep going up after record high home prices during the time you bought the house? 

Kyle978 wrote:
I was 32 and felt like it was time. I’ve always been a renter and we wanted to put our own touch on a home as...

I was 32 and felt like it was time. I’ve always been a renter and we wanted to put our own touch on a home as well as not move every couple years, wife works remote and needs an office plus space to roam, I work from home a couple days a week, two large dogs that need a yard…something like an apartment wasn’t really appealing. We would still be in one waiting for things to hit rock bottom. No thanks. 
 

Our current mortgage is about 15% of our monthly income after tax, we bought way under what we could afford knowing the bubble had to burst at some point. 

We will be alright, just thought I’d point out that buying a home isn’t the end all be all that some make it out to be. I rented for a lot of years so I could easily bail to chase career opportunities without being tied up to a home. I made a lot more money chasing those opportunities than I ever would have gained equity in a home. 

Sounds like you did the right thing for your situation and family. People that bought/owned stocks or real estate in 2020 have done exceptionally well in the last few years. If you bought at the peak, short term now is pretty bad. 

I think if you look at the stock market and real estate values at the peak in 2007, anyone that held those assets until 2025 outgained inflation by a large margin. Historically, it's always good to have those assets long term vs not. 

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12/9/2025 5:26pm
Alex814 wrote:
Sounds like you did the right thing for your situation and family. People that bought/owned stocks or real estate in 2020 have done exceptionally well in...

Sounds like you did the right thing for your situation and family. People that bought/owned stocks or real estate in 2020 have done exceptionally well in the last few years. If you bought at the peak, short term now is pretty bad. 

I think if you look at the stock market and real estate values at the peak in 2007, anyone that held those assets until 2025 outgained inflation by a large margin. Historically, it's always good to have those assets long term vs not. 

For sure. I’ll need to hold onto this house for a long while or I’ll end up taking a big L. Can’t win them all, but was hoping I wouldn’t see the pendulum swing quite this soon haha. 

I’m glad we purchased a home we could easily afford, but doesn’t make it hurt any less knowing that 20% down payment likely will get lit on fire. 

But I would light that 20% on fire twice before I stuck us in an apartment waiting for all hell to break loose with the market. 

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12/9/2025 5:32pm
Alex814 wrote:
Sounds like you did the right thing for your situation and family. People that bought/owned stocks or real estate in 2020 have done exceptionally well in...

Sounds like you did the right thing for your situation and family. People that bought/owned stocks or real estate in 2020 have done exceptionally well in the last few years. If you bought at the peak, short term now is pretty bad. 

I think if you look at the stock market and real estate values at the peak in 2007, anyone that held those assets until 2025 outgained inflation by a large margin. Historically, it's always good to have those assets long term vs not. 

Kyle978 wrote:
For sure. I’ll need to hold onto this house for a long while or I’ll end up taking a big L. Can’t win them all, but...

For sure. I’ll need to hold onto this house for a long while or I’ll end up taking a big L. Can’t win them all, but was hoping I wouldn’t see the pendulum swing quite this soon haha. 

I’m glad we purchased a home we could easily afford, but doesn’t make it hurt any less knowing that 20% down payment likely will get lit on fire. 

But I would light that 20% on fire twice before I stuck us in an apartment waiting for all hell to break loose with the market. 

You’ll be fine if you’re patient. My friends who bought in 07 are up twice what they paid. 

Like you, my wife and I made sure to buy well within our means and chose a house that would work for our family for at least the next ten years. After the last move I have no desire to do that again anytime soon anyway. 

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12/9/2025 5:44pm
This is a whole lot of nonsense. 😂😂 My goodness… A lot of people get into a career that will never pay well. And wait too...

This is a whole lot of nonsense. 😂😂 My goodness… A lot of people get into a career that will never pay well. And wait too long to do something about it. I notice you didn’t mention getting into a trade. In a lot of states trade jobs and union trades pay very well. You act like it’s impossible to have a good paying career. 🤦‍♂️

Yeah starting with a trade would be great, but if you already have 5-10 years into a career you'd be starting at the bottom in a new occupation, right?  

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12/9/2025 6:16pm
Spoonguy wrote:
So based on what you are stating to be true, tell me how you believe there are young people succeeding? I am dying to know your...

So based on what you are stating to be true, tell me how you believe there are young people succeeding? I am dying to know your theory on this, honest question, I am not trying to be smart.

Sandusky26 wrote:
2 words: Family Money.I'm 33 and I make decent money.I have friends who live on Golf courses, own 100,000$ plus boats, drive expensive trucks, they all...

2 words: Family Money.

I'm 33 and I make decent money.

I have friends who live on Golf courses, own 100,000$ plus boats, drive expensive trucks, they all have one thing in common. They got put on by their parents or in-laws.

 

OwenJakes wrote:
Every person under 30 I know that has a pot to pee in had a family hookup. Whether it was down payments, free cars, “hand me...

Every person under 30 I know that has a pot to pee in had a family hookup. Whether it was down payments, free cars, “hand me down” assets like homes and vehicles, or just family land. Oh well though dude we’re just complainers, lazy, victims, blames, etc etc etc 


Edit to add I’m not over here hard up either. We’re 100-% debt free and live on 40% of my income. This isn’t what it should take to save for a small house either. I’m not anywhere near the majority though and that’s my problem. I’m fine but the huge majority of the current young generation is honestly not. 

I’m old but ride with a bunch of late 20s early 30 year olds(kids of riding buddies and their friends). They all have bikes, vehicles that are probably around 10 years old and within the last 3 years 4 of them have purchased houses and got married. Most are in trades, two are college education, they all work hard and are doing ok in this economy 

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12/9/2025 7:35pm Edited Date/Time 12/9/2025 7:36pm
OwenJakes wrote:
really the problem is all of the other stuff. Sure I can take a $20 increase on a clutch but it’s the $100,000-$300,000 increase on the...

really the problem is all of the other stuff. Sure I can take a $20 increase on a clutch but it’s the $100,000-$300,000 increase on the house that’s got me and everyone else my age in a fit. 

don’t get me started on the price of cars. 

it’s a big picture thing. 

Everything else. Food, medical, don't get me started on daycare. We have paid almost $2000 month for the past 4 years for my son. 

12/9/2025 7:43pm
3strokemx wrote:
Are you serious?If you don't make enough money, change careers to start at the bottom somewhere else? ⛔If you don't make enough money, start a business...

Are you serious?

If you don't make enough money, change careers to start at the bottom somewhere else? ⛔
If you don't make enough money, start a business with the money you don't have? ⛔
Go to school? The recent grad job market is awful right now according to news outlets and the experiences I hear from many people. If you already aren't making enough money, how will you pay for school? ⛔

Doing better at your current job, OK I can see how this could make sense in some situations, but there are only so many higher paid positions and could take years before you are financially comfortable (if ever). Then you have the companies that don't want to promote the high performers because they'll need to hire 2 people to backfill.

 

RDnutz wrote:
trade schools are where it's at now after falling out of favor for those big expensive college degrees in basket weaving- and all the debt. After...

trade schools are where it's at now after falling out of favor for those big expensive college degrees in basket weaving- and all the debt. After high school I always did some combination of going to school + working to support myself. I wasn't smart enough to get into a 4 year college right away and went community college a few years getting enough credits until I could transfer to 4 year. My Dad had saved a modest college fund for each of us 3 boys and asked us to come to him with written career plans and he would help us with some basic financial expenses while we worked towards the goal we signed off on. I chose AS degree program at community college taking 2 years on top of the Gen Ed certificate I got from all the credits I earned on my own. It was Computer Technology- starting in 1982 until I graduated in 1984.

Got low end shit pay jobs the 1st couple years but stuck with it and twice started side hustle businesses for extra living cash. Both fizzled after a short time, but I still worked as a tech the whole time. After a couple years decided I wanted a 4 year degree and on my own dime while working full time got a degree in Criminal Justice Administration and applied for law school. I also got married during that time and even started riding again because I quit after high school. Always lived within our means and didn't have kids on purpose. Bought starter or fixer homes to start with. Wife spent 30 years at same tech company working her way up and I jumped companies a couple times when better opportunities came along to upgrade my titles and pay. We both retired after 40+ years in tech in SoCal and live comfortably on Social Security and Company 401ks and IRAs we always contributed to when offered. 

Never did go to Law School as it turned out I would have made less and worked more than I was as an Engineering Tech. Just got to play the long game and make you own luck along the way and not get caught up in keeping up with the Jones' or Kartrashians BS they bombard us with 24/7 

100%. I've been in the data center industry for 20+ years. I have a HS diploma, military experience, and some (older) technical certs. I make really...

100%. I've been in the data center industry for 20+ years. I have a HS diploma, military experience, and some (older) technical certs. I make really, really good money w/o a college degree. We are dying for good workers in many locations around the country. Hillsboro, Ashburn, Atlanta, Dallas, SoCal, Bay area, and a lot more. Join the union, go to trade school, go in the military for 4-6 years. Come out with HVAC or electrical trade skills and I'll start you at $35-40 an hour. If you can read and write well, you will move up fast. A Chief Engineer will pull $75+ an hour. Doesn't matter what part of the industry you are in - design/construction or operations - there's a lot of jobs out there and good money. I run a shop of 15 guys and not one makes less than $100k a year with excellent benefits, RSUs, and 10-20% annual performance bonuses. 

My kid took trade classes in HS and leaves for basic training in a month to be an F15 Crew Chief. After his tour I'll help him find a slot in my industry and he will be set for life. Trades are where it's at. 

I can certainly recommend trades. The only reason when college makes sense is if you're going into law, medical, or engineering 

12/9/2025 7:49pm
100%. I've been in the data center industry for 20+ years. I have a HS diploma, military experience, and some (older) technical certs. I make really...

100%. I've been in the data center industry for 20+ years. I have a HS diploma, military experience, and some (older) technical certs. I make really, really good money w/o a college degree. We are dying for good workers in many locations around the country. Hillsboro, Ashburn, Atlanta, Dallas, SoCal, Bay area, and a lot more. Join the union, go to trade school, go in the military for 4-6 years. Come out with HVAC or electrical trade skills and I'll start you at $35-40 an hour. If you can read and write well, you will move up fast. A Chief Engineer will pull $75+ an hour. Doesn't matter what part of the industry you are in - design/construction or operations - there's a lot of jobs out there and good money. I run a shop of 15 guys and not one makes less than $100k a year with excellent benefits, RSUs, and 10-20% annual performance bonuses. 

My kid took trade classes in HS and leaves for basic training in a month to be an F15 Crew Chief. After his tour I'll help him find a slot in my industry and he will be set for life. Trades are where it's at. 

3strokemx wrote:

Can you buy a house on $35-$40/h in any of those cities?

Good point. My wife and I were able to buy a cheap townhome in one of those cities but only on dual incomes. Housing is insane. 

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