A horrible way to get caught cheating

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This kid lost his life, killed his 22yr old side chick, and at the same time exposed he was cheating on his new wife, who was home at the time of the crash.  He'd just been married less than a year ago to his new wife Emma.  He flew this 22yr old Hooters model in from FL and had been telling her he was separated from his wife and getting a divorce (according to the victim's sister).  

A tragedy in so many ways, but yeah, what a way to get caught cheating.  I don't think the in-laws will be showing up at his services.  Man, the comments on social media are absolutely brutal.

https://www.tmz.com/2026/09/15/james-wehr-deadly-car-crash-video/

https://www.instagram.com/wehr/

https://www.instagram.com/lexikinda/

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Remember after 911 when the twin towers came down.... there were dozens of people caught leading double lives with other wives/hubbies.... just shows how fd society is... society says only to live one way... while we as a species aren't wired for it.... imo 50 percent of people are happiest with a lifelong spouse at the dna level... but the other 50 percent aren't.... and they are the ones forced into a life they hate... hence what we see in the vid above... 

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9/16/2026 3:19pm

If I am the widow, I'm thinking the problem took care of itself. 

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9/16/2026 3:53pm
bonseff wrote:

If I am the widow, I'm thinking the problem took care of itself. 

A lot quicker and easier than divorce court. 

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9/16/2026 4:06pm

This was the guy in the McLaren?

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9/16/2026 4:18pm
gt80rider wrote:
Remember after 911 when the twin towers came down.... there were dozens of people caught leading double lives with other wives/hubbies.... just shows how fd society...

Remember after 911 when the twin towers came down.... there were dozens of people caught leading double lives with other wives/hubbies.... just shows how fd society is... society says only to live one way... while we as a species aren't wired for it.... imo 50 percent of people are happiest with a lifelong spouse at the dna level... but the other 50 percent aren't.... and they are the ones forced into a life they hate... hence what we see in the vid above... 

I think everyone is wired to bang a hottie, but our success as a species comes from our ability to overcome our caveman impulses.

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9/17/2026 9:54am
gt80rider wrote:
Remember after 911 when the twin towers came down.... there were dozens of people caught leading double lives with other wives/hubbies.... just shows how fd society...

Remember after 911 when the twin towers came down.... there were dozens of people caught leading double lives with other wives/hubbies.... just shows how fd society is... society says only to live one way... while we as a species aren't wired for it.... imo 50 percent of people are happiest with a lifelong spouse at the dna level... but the other 50 percent aren't.... and they are the ones forced into a life they hate... hence what we see in the vid above... 

byke wrote:

I think everyone is wired to bang a hottie, but our success as a species comes from our ability to overcome our caveman impulses.

That's why I married one. So I would not be conflicted throughout life. 😁

TM

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Joey Bridges
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9/17/2026 9:57am
ToolMaker wrote:

That's why I married one. So I would not be conflicted throughout life. 😁

TM

Word.

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9/17/2026 10:15am
ToolMaker wrote:

That's why I married one. So I would not be conflicted throughout life. 😁

TM

Word.

And BTW, celebrating our 40 year anniversary this past Sunday.

TM

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9/17/2026 10:47am Edited Date/Time 9/17/2026 10:47am
ToolMaker wrote:

That's why I married one. So I would not be conflicted throughout life. 😁

TM

Word.

ToolMaker wrote:

And BTW, celebrating our 40 year anniversary this past Sunday.

TM

Congrats, TM!

We hit 41 sometime in July, but don’t ask me the date. 

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9/17/2026 11:05am

Word.

ToolMaker wrote:

And BTW, celebrating our 40 year anniversary this past Sunday.

TM

Gworm wrote:

Congrats, TM!

We hit 41 sometime in July, but don’t ask me the date. 

You must also have found that rare gem!

Congrats!

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9/17/2026 11:14am
gt80rider wrote:
Remember after 911 when the twin towers came down.... there were dozens of people caught leading double lives with other wives/hubbies.... just shows how fd society...

Remember after 911 when the twin towers came down.... there were dozens of people caught leading double lives with other wives/hubbies.... just shows how fd society is... society says only to live one way... while we as a species aren't wired for it.... imo 50 percent of people are happiest with a lifelong spouse at the dna level... but the other 50 percent aren't.... and they are the ones forced into a life they hate... hence what we see in the vid above... 

"Forced"

Another stellar post.

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9/17/2026 11:43am

Word.

ToolMaker wrote:

And BTW, celebrating our 40 year anniversary this past Sunday.

TM

Gworm wrote:

Congrats, TM!

We hit 41 sometime in July, but don’t ask me the date. 

After we got engaged and were planning our wedding my wife asked me if I would rather get married on March 20, or March 27. I chose 3-27 because I could remember it because it is a small block chevy engine size. My wife is hot too!

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9/17/2026 12:03pm Edited Date/Time 9/17/2026 12:05pm

Now you have to get this, she should approve

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9/17/2026 12:12pm
ToolMaker wrote:

And BTW, celebrating our 40 year anniversary this past Sunday.

TM

Gworm wrote:

Congrats, TM!

We hit 41 sometime in July, but don’t ask me the date. 

R66 wrote:
After we got engaged and were planning our wedding my wife asked me if I would rather get married on March 20, or March 27. I...

After we got engaged and were planning our wedding my wife asked me if I would rather get married on March 20, or March 27. I chose 3-27 because I could remember it because it is a small block chevy engine size. My wife is hot too!

My wife wanted us to get married on February 4 2006.....she figured 2-4-6 would be easy for me to remember. 

But...I had a rec league basketball game so we did it on 2-7-06...and I broke foot playing that basketball game ruining our ski plans at South Lake Tahoe where we got married at the Caesars.

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9/17/2026 12:18pm
Gworm wrote:

Congrats, TM!

We hit 41 sometime in July, but don’t ask me the date. 

R66 wrote:
After we got engaged and were planning our wedding my wife asked me if I would rather get married on March 20, or March 27. I...

After we got engaged and were planning our wedding my wife asked me if I would rather get married on March 20, or March 27. I chose 3-27 because I could remember it because it is a small block chevy engine size. My wife is hot too!

My wife wanted us to get married on February 4 2006.....she figured 2-4-6 would be easy for me to remember. But...I had a rec league basketball game...

My wife wanted us to get married on February 4 2006.....she figured 2-4-6 would be easy for me to remember. 

But...I had a rec league basketball game so we did it on 2-7-06...and I broke foot playing that basketball game ruining our ski plans at South Lake Tahoe where we got married at the Caesars.

Pretty sure the extra time from not being out on the slopes left extra time for other honeymoon activities🤣

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9/17/2026 12:36pm
ToolMaker wrote:

And BTW, celebrating our 40 year anniversary this past Sunday.

TM

Gworm wrote:

Congrats, TM!

We hit 41 sometime in July, but don’t ask me the date. 

ToolMaker wrote:

You must also have found that rare gem!

Congrats!

I did for sure. 

I still wonder why she has put up with me for so long!

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9/17/2026 12:37pm Edited Date/Time 9/17/2026 12:41pm

The "Cars and Coffee" Saturday car show him and his Dad co-founded ( Depending on who you talk to ) is at the outlet mall in San Clemente about a 1/4 mile from my house. They are going to have a service and memorial for him this Saturday, I'm going to avoid that scene this weekend. The amount of conflicting information around this incident is mind boggling, and yes you're not kidding, the social media comments are literally some of the most brutal cold hearted shit I've ever read. It makes this place seem tame. Here's a sample of what's being said by different San Clemente FB pages as well as local news sources. The "facts" being reported are so far apart it's laughable. 

He was driving, she was driving, he told her he was divorced, he told her he was "getting" a divorce, no divorce paperwork has been filed, they were pulled over before the crash but let go, they were going over 100 mph, they were going 43 mph, they were at a stop moments before and lost control during acceleration, the McClaren split in two pieces and burst into flames because it's only held together with 8 bolts and they hit the tree in "Just the right spot" they crashed because they hit water and hydroplaned causing the loss of control, the water was from an irrigation leak so the city of Irvine is liable for causing the crash, and on and on. The local FB pages and other social media outlets are all over the map. Comments range from 100% sympathy to F-him he was a piece of shit. I hope the weekly car show continues because it's pretty neat to have right around the corner. I'm just glad he didn't have kids, and I feel terrible for the 22 year old girl who fell for his schtick.   

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Video of the crash. Doesn't look that fast, hit the brakes in the water, spun to the right and kablam. The car bursts into flames like a ford pinto. Sad deal. The guy wasn't being that stupid. After seeing this it seems more freak accident than driving 100+ and losing it. RIP 

‘Clear evidence’ shows California car influencer driving at time of fiery McLaren crash | KTLA

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9/18/2026 4:02am
R66 wrote:
After we got engaged and were planning our wedding my wife asked me if I would rather get married on March 20, or March 27. I...

After we got engaged and were planning our wedding my wife asked me if I would rather get married on March 20, or March 27. I chose 3-27 because I could remember it because it is a small block chevy engine size. My wife is hot too!

That's hilarious.

Jenn's B-day is 3-27.

And that's exactly how I remember it. 

We met hiking in the snow on 1-6-2001.

A date I remember, and always have to remind her of.

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And in the “You can’t make this shit up” dept. I found this. 
A go fund me page for a guy who owned a McLaren to preserve his “Legacy”. 😆.  Yeah you guys can go fund yourself how about that lol. No wonder the comments are turned off IMG 8254.png?VersionId=gqqVNHXu6WGtLKK8g

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I had a chance to ride in a newish corvette in the early 90s  and the driver hit a little irrigation water, not much, but Corvette spun up quick, though she was able to keep it on the road, man it happened fast!

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9/20/2026 2:26pm
sumdood wrote:
Video of the crash. Doesn't look that fast, hit the brakes in the water, spun to the right and kablam. The car bursts into flames like...

Video of the crash. Doesn't look that fast, hit the brakes in the water, spun to the right and kablam. The car bursts into flames like a ford pinto. Sad deal. The guy wasn't being that stupid. After seeing this it seems more freak accident than driving 100+ and losing it. RIP 

‘Clear evidence’ shows California car influencer driving at time of fiery McLaren crash | KTLA

Man, instant explosion. 

Carbon fuel cell?

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It could have been worse. He could have lived and had to face the consequences.....

I feel terrible for the  young lady it sounds like he was lying to, and both surviving families. 

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sumdood wrote:
Video of the crash. Doesn't look that fast, hit the brakes in the water, spun to the right and kablam. The car bursts into flames like...

Video of the crash. Doesn't look that fast, hit the brakes in the water, spun to the right and kablam. The car bursts into flames like a ford pinto. Sad deal. The guy wasn't being that stupid. After seeing this it seems more freak accident than driving 100+ and losing it. RIP 

‘Clear evidence’ shows California car influencer driving at time of fiery McLaren crash | KTLA

That video and the results were bizarre. I am not possible but he was in my Chevy truck I believe they would have hit the tree, climbed out and called for an Uber. It’s hard to judge speed but I’m guessing 45-50 mph and zero deceleration before impact. Wrong car to hit water 

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And in the “You can’t make this shit up” dept. I found this. A go fund me page for a guy who owned a McLaren to preserve...

And in the “You can’t make this shit up” dept. I found this. 
A go fund me page for a guy who owned a McLaren to preserve his “Legacy”. 😆.  Yeah you guys can go fund yourself how about that lol. No wonder the comments are turned off IMG 8254.png?VersionId=gqqVNHXu6WGtLKK8g

Stuff like this makes me sick. Fuck that! Sell one of your supercars to build a memorial or whatever 

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9/20/2026 8:04pm

There should be a gofundme for the innocent tree.

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9/21/2026 8:38am

Word.

ToolMaker wrote:

And BTW, celebrating our 40 year anniversary this past Sunday.

TM

Gworm wrote:

Congrats, TM!

We hit 41 sometime in July, but don’t ask me the date. 

Congrats guys. 42 for me come October. Met in the middle of July and married in October same year. 

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sumdood
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ToolMaker wrote:

And BTW, celebrating our 40 year anniversary this past Sunday.

TM

Gworm wrote:

Congrats, TM!

We hit 41 sometime in July, but don’t ask me the date. 

Congrats guys. 42 for me come October. Met in the middle of July and married in October same year. 

Nice ! Next year is #40 for us. Met in 83’, married in 87’

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9/21/2026 4:53pm Edited Date/Time 9/21/2026 4:53pm
Gworm wrote:

Congrats, TM!

We hit 41 sometime in July, but don’t ask me the date. 

Congrats guys. 42 for me come October. Met in the middle of July and married in October same year. 

sumdood wrote:

Nice ! Next year is #40 for us. Met in 83’, married in 87’

Congratulations Sum!😎👍🏻

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