Stepping Away From Riding

peltier626
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8/24/2022 12:44pm Edited Date/Time 8/24/2022 12:44pm
Walked away a couple years ago at 39 due to family responsibilities and risk association. Thought I would still frequent the track with my son but he's not really into riding. Bought a pontoon boat and chase the local soccer scene with my son. Don't miss MX nearly as much as I thought I would.
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LoudLove
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8/24/2022 1:56pm
Two back surgeries this year. I’m out. Had transitioned to off-road anyway. Thinking about jumping into the e-bike craze. More than a dozen trials closer than the nearest track, and a bit less expensive. But not by much!
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8/24/2022 2:02pm
Dave v3.0 wrote:
I quit riding not long after David Bailey's injury in 1987. Sold everything, quit following moto, got completely away from the sport. Played golf. A LOT...
I quit riding not long after David Bailey's injury in 1987. Sold everything, quit following moto, got completely away from the sport.

Played golf. A LOT of golf. Threw myself into work. Had 2 kids. Learned what non-moto people did on Sunday.

Then I got a call from my doctor one day in 2000 while I was driving thru San Antonio on the interstate. Sir, we hate to tell you...but your that mole biopsy was malignant Melanoma. We have you set up to see a surgeon and an Oncologist. I was 40.

I delt with that for the next 12 months as well as a job downsizing. Decided that enough was enough and figured if I was gonna go out, I was gonna go out swinging. Found a 1981 Husky 430 that needed restoring. Bought a KDX175. Eventually ended up with 14 bikes in the garage.Laughing

Started racing again in 2002. Bought myself a shiney new 2003 Honda CRF450. Started finishing what I started back in 1971. Had another Melanoma diagnosis in 2012. Took care of it and didn't look back. I'll be riding until the day they plant me. Hell, I'm only 62...I've got at least 20 more good years of riding left in me. And I'm down to 7 bikes in the garage. For today.Cool
TriRacer27 wrote:
You're my role model for today Dave. Hell of a story and glad you came back. Riding keeps you young. What bikes you got in the...
You're my role model for today Dave. Hell of a story and glad you came back.

Riding keeps you young.

What bikes you got in the garage now?
Dave v3.0 wrote:
Today's assortmentLaughing

2013.5 KTM450 Factory Edition
1974 Ossa Phantom
1972 Maico 400 Radial
1979 Maico 440
1975 Honda CR125
1974 Yamaha YZ80
1976 Yamaha YZ80
WTH. That's a special kinda connoisseur right there. 2 Mico 400s and 2 80s?

Enjoy every minute on them sir.
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LungButter
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8/24/2022 2:04pm
My $.02...

Sounds like you got a bike and all the gear, tools etc. that is paid for and not costing you money unless you'er using it. If it were me I'd do my best to keep that stuff and get out a couple times a year at an ORV or public land riding area at least.

That would let you scratch the itch to ride, not have to pay $100 in track fees just for your son and you to hit the track, and do some play riding with your son which is obviously a huge positive. It's also safer than hitting the track when your a little "rusty".

But to the original question, I've taken a year or 2 off completely from riding a couple times. Not the end of the world. Always kept following the sport religiously anyway. You'll be fine. If your boy stays riding and racing your still gonna be super connected to it anyway.
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8/24/2022 2:09pm
So I was forced to stop and get rid of my bike because of some financial issues. That was about 5 years ago and I will tell you I miss it every single day. The plan is to get another bike but there are more important things in my life right now that I need to handle. I still tease myself unfortunately and look at bikes for sale and even go to dealerships to look at the new bikes I know I can’t afford. I would use riding as a way to escape the shit going on in life and to be free for that couple of hours and I look forward to doing that again. With the laws in California they way they are it seems like it going to be a bitch to get a new bike so used might be my way to go. But like I said other things in life coke first, riding is just a luxury at this point :/
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R VanKamp77
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8/24/2022 2:18pm
DTHA70 wrote:
Its been 8 years. I still have all my stuff but with 3 kids under 5, i just do……..not……have…….time. I hit the BMX track some with...
Its been 8 years. I still have all my stuff but with 3 kids under 5, i just do……..not……have…….time. I hit the BMX track some with my oldest, and the skatepark as well as some MTB action. My heart says go out and buy 2 new bikes and go for it but i know they’d just sit. Hoping to get back in the saddle before 35 lol.
Serious question as someone behind you on a similar path to having a family: what keeps you from going? What consumes your time? I can't foresee not being able to make 6 hours saturday morning to get on the bike with the occasional friday night-saturday afternoon trip but I'm not 'there' yet so I don't know what to expect.

The way I see it, I put on the whole show for the family so if I want 6 hours of my own life to myself, I'll take it and nobody will stop me. Maybe i'm wrong.
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Richy
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8/24/2022 2:25pm
So I was forced to stop and get rid of my bike because of some financial issues. That was about 5 years ago and I will...
So I was forced to stop and get rid of my bike because of some financial issues. That was about 5 years ago and I will tell you I miss it every single day. The plan is to get another bike but there are more important things in my life right now that I need to handle. I still tease myself unfortunately and look at bikes for sale and even go to dealerships to look at the new bikes I know I can’t afford. I would use riding as a way to escape the shit going on in life and to be free for that couple of hours and I look forward to doing that again. With the laws in California they way they are it seems like it going to be a bitch to get a new bike so used might be my way to go. But like I said other things in life coke first, riding is just a luxury at this point :/
Coke is a luxury too my man, that has to be more expensive than a bike 🤣 Sorry I'm sure that was just a typo, and I'm not trying to belittle your situation, things have been way too tight for me more times than I can count, so I know how it is 👍
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8/24/2022 2:29pm Edited Date/Time 8/24/2022 2:41pm
Took a break for college back in 2010, and road again a couple of times. I got really serious about drums, and had to choose between two pretty expensive passions. I've ridden a couple of times since and still love it, but ultimately I'm happy just being a fan of the sport. Drums also oddly enough share a strange center of a venn diagram with riding - they have a sort of "flow state" mentality to them that cognitively feels adjacent to riding. With drums I'm locked into a tempo but am free to create variation and adjust to the music as I see fit, and with riding I was generally stuck to the confines of the trail or track but had the creative control of line choice and bike technique to maneuver through the session as I saw fit.

Additionally, I had kind of a shitty relationship with it. Only did it because I was a kid and wanted to be the next RC, and when that dream died, I kinda looked around and wasn't even sure if I actually enjoyed it. Drums were an escape for me in a lot of ways and had more of a weird magnetism that pulled me in. Oddly enough it was through studying a heavily technique centered discipline that made me come full circle and fall in love with the artform of the sport in a big way. Can thank AJ Catanzaro for that. Now I not only enjoy the races themselves, but also can appreciate the skills and technical mastery of the guys on TV.

Maybe I'll pick it up again someday. I generally like to push my speed relative to my comfort zone and the technique fundamentals needed to do that safely really only fall into place for me if I'm riding regularly, so it'd have to be at some point when I'm past my "traveling around the country in a fart filled band van" phase of my life.
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8/24/2022 4:19pm Edited Date/Time 8/24/2022 4:20pm
I got lucky, i kept riding when my son got into it, as he got better i still rode practice days, raced every once in a while. Ends up he enjoys wataching me and now trying to get me to be better. Im 59, he is 27 and always pulling me to go ride or mtb. Keeps my half way fit and ton of memories.

Not sure why dads quit when their kids race? Whats the odds of kids going pro. Remember its just fun for us mere mortalsSmile
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Radical
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8/24/2022 4:35pm
Dave v3.0 wrote:
I quit riding not long after David Bailey's injury in 1987. Sold everything, quit following moto, got completely away from the sport. Played golf. A LOT...
I quit riding not long after David Bailey's injury in 1987. Sold everything, quit following moto, got completely away from the sport.

Played golf. A LOT of golf. Threw myself into work. Had 2 kids. Learned what non-moto people did on Sunday.

Then I got a call from my doctor one day in 2000 while I was driving thru San Antonio on the interstate. Sir, we hate to tell you...but your that mole biopsy was malignant Melanoma. We have you set up to see a surgeon and an Oncologist. I was 40.

I delt with that for the next 12 months as well as a job downsizing. Decided that enough was enough and figured if I was gonna go out, I was gonna go out swinging. Found a 1981 Husky 430 that needed restoring. Bought a KDX175. Eventually ended up with 14 bikes in the garage.Laughing

Started racing again in 2002. Bought myself a shiney new 2003 Honda CRF450. Started finishing what I started back in 1971. Had another Melanoma diagnosis in 2012. Took care of it and didn't look back. I'll be riding until the day they plant me. Hell, I'm only 62...I've got at least 20 more good years of riding left in me. And I'm down to 7 bikes in the garage. For today.Cool
TriRacer27 wrote:
You're my role model for today Dave. Hell of a story and glad you came back. Riding keeps you young. What bikes you got in the...
You're my role model for today Dave. Hell of a story and glad you came back.

Riding keeps you young.

What bikes you got in the garage now?
Dave v3.0 wrote:
Today's assortmentLaughing

2013.5 KTM450 Factory Edition
1974 Ossa Phantom
1972 Maico 400 Radial
1979 Maico 440
1975 Honda CR125
1974 Yamaha YZ80
1976 Yamaha YZ80
I'd love to see pictures of your 1976 YZ80C! I bought one brand new from paper route money, and still for some reason look for one to pop up on Craigslist Smile .
Radical
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8/24/2022 4:46pm
jdub2035 wrote:
I stopped riding at 23. My wife and I adopted a little boy and soon after 3 of his siblings. I am 34 now and haven’t...
I stopped riding at 23. My wife and I adopted a little boy and soon after 3 of his siblings. I am 34 now and haven’t gotten a bike for me. But getting these kids bikes and seeing the smile on their faces makes it totally okay for me not to ride. I miss it but I sure do love seeing my kiddos smile and have fun and just ride!
Just want to say that it is awesome what you and your wife did for those kids! God bless you and your family!
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Brad460
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8/24/2022 5:31pm
Why does this have to be some conscious decision to “step away” from motocross? What does that even mean?

We’ve all gone some amount of time without riding or racing, it’s called life. What’s the purpose of turning into some significant life decision?

Throughout my life I’ve ridden more and ridden less, or not ridden at all for some period of time, but it didn’t need to be treated as some major life decision.

We have 7 yr old twins- after they were born I didn’t ride much, now I ride more because my son rides.

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Dave v3.0
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8/24/2022 6:13pm
TriRacer27 wrote:
You're my role model for today Dave. Hell of a story and glad you came back. Riding keeps you young. What bikes you got in the...
You're my role model for today Dave. Hell of a story and glad you came back.

Riding keeps you young.

What bikes you got in the garage now?
Dave v3.0 wrote:
Today's assortmentLaughing

2013.5 KTM450 Factory Edition
1974 Ossa Phantom
1972 Maico 400 Radial
1979 Maico 440
1975 Honda CR125
1974 Yamaha YZ80
1976 Yamaha YZ80
Radical wrote:
I'd love to see pictures of your 1976 YZ80C! I bought one brand new from paper route money, and still for some reason look for one...
I'd love to see pictures of your 1976 YZ80C! I bought one brand new from paper route money, and still for some reason look for one to pop up on Craigslist Smile .
Unfortunately, its still a long way from picture form. I got it from a friend who never had time to get around to restoring it. Now I'm THAT guy. It's on the list to get some attention in the next few months so when I get it completed I'll throw up some photos.

In the meantime, there are a couple of active FB groups dedicated to Yamaha Mini Enduros and YZ80's that you should check out. I see complete YZ80C's show up from time to time. And like everything else vintage, they bring stupid money too.
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Bad Billy
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Lived and breathed and raced MX from age 12 through 30. Top 10 finish at Loretta’s, qualified for a couple pro nationals, but college was a priority. Landed an MX-industry job after college and did that for eight years until I just up and quit to focus on life. I had recently bought a home, had a fiancé—like others said, just wanted to see what it was like waking up in my own bed on weekends and experiencing life.

Picked up golf and did that for a few years, but it sucks to suck. Got a bike again in 2015 and just rode for fun for a few years. Decided to do a local vet race and remembered why local races sucked – was at the track by 7:00 a.m. but didn’t even get to race my first moto (four laps) till 4:30 p.m.! Knowing I had to wake up early for work the next morning, I loaded up and left.

To this day, I still wrestle with the notion of getting back into riding. Especially around Loretta Lynn’s….I think about all the great times my family and I had there.

But then again, I don’t even have children and still feel pressed for time…after obligations to the wife, pets, other hobbies, some days I think, “Would I really feel like pressure washing a dirt bike or changing a tire right now?” I just feel like if I cannot commit 100%, it’s not worth half-assing it.
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8/24/2022 7:26pm
I’ve stepped away 3 times. Once for five years, the others were about a year or two each.

The first time was in college. Girls and parties were more important than practice, so I hurt myself a lot. I finally realized I needed a break.

The second time, I just didn’t have anyone to ride with. All my moto buddies had moved on, so it wasn’t all that fun to go alone. I was a ways away from my parents and so I wasn’t riding with dad much.

The third time I truly believed I was done. My dad finally decided to hang up his boots and quite honestly, it wasn’t the same without him. I took up flying, and other than cost (!), was enjoying it. I ended up getting back into it after 5 years because of a promise I had made to my daughter (learn your bicycle without training wheels and you get a dirt bike). Well, she remembered…and off we went.

Stuff I learned:

No matter how much you think you’re over it or won’t do it again, odds are good you will. Keep at least one good set of gear. This makes getting back in far less expensive and also allows you to test the waters with a buddy’s (or your kid’s) bike.

Keep a stand, tools, etc-again, greatly reduces startup costs. Since your son is riding, I’m guessing you’ll have this anyway.

Take it easy and recognize you’ll be disappointed in your speed and bravery when you start up again. I found that it didn’t take long to knock the rust off, other than my willingness to jump stuff…that took awhile, especially after the 5-year layoff.
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VetRider97
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8/24/2022 8:00pm
I stopped racing @ 19 and started back @ 37. During the "off years" I was too busy raising family and running business until I felt I could dedicate the time and afford it. If you have kids and family the time easily gets filled in but if you can keep some bikes for family and do some trail or woods or MTB riding if available, all can be a blast.

For me once I started back up @ 37 it's become hard to give up the feeling of riding moto even @ +60. Hoping to go until 65+ or maybe 70+ racing vet series. I have some extra motivation to keep riding as I was diagnosed with leukemia @ 45 and while I have never been treated I don't want something out of my control to put end to my riding or to look back and feel I gave up and missed out .



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AH387
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8/25/2022 6:27am
Bad Billy wrote:
Lived and breathed and raced MX from age 12 through 30. Top 10 finish at Loretta’s, qualified for a couple pro nationals, but college was a...
Lived and breathed and raced MX from age 12 through 30. Top 10 finish at Loretta’s, qualified for a couple pro nationals, but college was a priority. Landed an MX-industry job after college and did that for eight years until I just up and quit to focus on life. I had recently bought a home, had a fiancé—like others said, just wanted to see what it was like waking up in my own bed on weekends and experiencing life.

Picked up golf and did that for a few years, but it sucks to suck. Got a bike again in 2015 and just rode for fun for a few years. Decided to do a local vet race and remembered why local races sucked – was at the track by 7:00 a.m. but didn’t even get to race my first moto (four laps) till 4:30 p.m.! Knowing I had to wake up early for work the next morning, I loaded up and left.

To this day, I still wrestle with the notion of getting back into riding. Especially around Loretta Lynn’s….I think about all the great times my family and I had there.

But then again, I don’t even have children and still feel pressed for time…after obligations to the wife, pets, other hobbies, some days I think, “Would I really feel like pressure washing a dirt bike or changing a tire right now?” I just feel like if I cannot commit 100%, it’s not worth half-assing it.
I miss the 243!


Anyways, OP, I feel like there was a similar thread not too long ago and I think this is a pretty common thing to feel like this at different points in life. It's really hard to be used to putting MX as such a top priority in life and then having that change. I have slowly been backing down how much I ride just with life getting in the way. I was hurt this spring and had some time off anyways and we are expecting our first child in October. So my summer was spent just doing stuff around the house and getting ready for that (setting up the room etc.) So I've only been out a handful of times this year. We purposely waited a little later in life to have kids and now that he will be here soon, I know I probably won't have as much time to ride. So I can understand why people feel that way, as I am struggling with that reality a bit myself. But my family is my 1st priority. So this season is pretty much shot for me. I'm hoping next year when things settle down, I can try to get in a routine to ride more. But who knows, just have to see how it goes.
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ARM670
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8/25/2022 12:35pm
Stopped riding when triplets came along at 30yrs old, another daughter at 33, put all my time into kids. Kept my bike boats and cars. My son raced until he was 9 then traditional sports took over. Started riding some last summer now my youngest just started college hoping to ride more but I haven't made it out yet this year. Been a weird summer. Damn I miss riding. LOL
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Mr. Afterbar
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8/25/2022 4:04pm
I stopped riding/racing for about seven years in my early 20s. Repeated injuries along with responsibilities took over and I lost interest. Spent my time going to bars and wasting my life away. During that time I bought my first house and got on my feet. After partying fizzled out and I got sick of being at home with nothing to do on the weekends, I sold my ‘06 RMZ 450 that had been sitting unridden other than a handful of times during that period. I bought a new ‘13 KX450f and have been riding again ever since. Raced more last year at 36 than I have since I was 20.
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8/26/2022 7:44am
How did we deal with it ? Ah it’s not easy it totally sucks. Upper Midwest riders deal with it every yr for 7 months. When all my bikes where stolen not being able to ride was tough. You try to find something to give you the same feeling but nothing really does. Swimming or trucking in the ne will give ya g forces all day. Keep your bike and just ride less. Once a month is better than never. I always make my last session a good one . Never leave the track on a bad note.
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Tuffy
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8/26/2022 10:51am
I stopped racing in 1986 to raise a family, and deal with back issues. I was 25...I started racing again this year. I am now 61. I gained nearly 100 lbs in the post racing years. I have dropped 60 of those, and am trying to shed the rest so I can race comfortably.

My recommendation to you, if you have to stop racing for now, that is ok...just don't let yourself be complacent and comfortable with your health. Stay fit, take care of your family...you will ride again...
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oceantrav
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8/27/2022 7:26am
I stopped around 17 years old.

Started again around 23 when I had money.

Stopped again about 2 years ago at 35. Two kids racing it was a lot of work to ride my self. Just had my second knee surgery 6 months ago within a 2 year period.

I have the time and money to ride now. Trying to talk my self out of it. Starting to feel all the injuries at 37, not sure it’s worth it. I can’t just go slow and not jump everything, and I don’t like the woods.

Been living threw my 9 and 14 year old lately.

If I do want to ride, could alwasy ride my kids 2022 fc250

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cable
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8/27/2022 7:38am
Mountain bike racing or riding. I got my kids into bmx racing. almost no maintenance. its cheap. its mostly during summer break. my kids do traditional sports during the school year. lots of former moto guys are there with the kids. Kids and I are in contention for state championship sunday. Smile .
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8/27/2022 8:06am
Recent thread covered time away from riding. Just get a 125 and ride. 35 yrs of drill rig and especially trucking 20-39 + hrs straight driving beaten junk. Totally destroyed everything in my body. Yes every body part I can’t name 1 body part that doesn’t need surgery or has a lot of arthritis. 3 months of pt they just say everything is destroyed on you. They snuck a 3 hr disability test in I was required to do. 7 days a week doing pt at the y and pt at a clinic. I look like a Olympic sprinter my reg wt of 172 I got down to 158. I still rode 4 times and was pretty fast , passing 15 yr olds on new yz,s. But The Lower 5 vertebra and disk r shot. That’s the biggest thing.
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jleews6
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8/27/2022 8:49am
In 1982 i got a brand new Mustang GT when I was 17 and I stopped riding that day. Then i raised a family and one of my boys raced and I always wanted to ride but didn't and then in 2019 I bought a bike and started riding again and fell back in love with riding all over again. I have won 3 full gas sprint enduros and multiple local races and the vxcs championship.
Just look at it as the time will come again but you have to take care of what's important today.
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