Go fund me for my 66 year old mother injured as a spectator at cahuilla creek motocross track

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7/18/2015 12:05am
moscrop940 wrote:
Fuck you guys are pretty gnarly on this kid. "O wait you don't come on this board on a regular bases and beat off to all...
Fuck you guys are pretty gnarly on this kid.

"O wait you don't come on this board on a regular bases and beat off to all the shit talking, fuck no I'm not giving you any money in your time of need"

The story seems valid enough.

With your guys thought process I assume you never help out the guy on the corner because you assume he is going to buy booze with it....who gives a shit what he does with it. Do it to be a good person and hope the money is going to good use.

You don't have to donate, but talking shit and voicing your objections is pretty pathetic.
The Rock wrote:
My sentiments exactly. If you don't want to donate then move on. Bunch of cold hearted SOBs to pile on this kid when he is worried...
My sentiments exactly. If you don't want to donate then move on. Bunch of cold hearted SOBs to pile on this kid when he is worried about my mom.

Just another example of the negativity many (but not all fortunately) of you like to spew. Glad I had parents that raised me to have compassion.

EDIT GrapeApe ever think for a second you are in a much better situation to be offering advice given there is no stress on you? First the kid gets crucified then you tell him how he should have done it. How exactly does that help this family now?
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Some people have the Intelligence to see it for exactly what it is. Having a go at GrapeApe for using and suggesting some common sense, says...
Some people have the Intelligence to see it for exactly what it is.

Having a go at GrapeApe for using and suggesting some common sense, says a lot about yours, or lack there of.

I'd suggest. If the kid has been working away from home, he may not actually be a "kid". Don't you lot drive on the same roads as unsupervised 16yr olds? LOL.

Yeah, I know. "common sense just ain't that common these days". Seriously, have a bit of a think about it.
Hey I ride and race MX but can't lift the bike on or off the stand due to my back. Accordingly I don't claim to have the market cornered in the common sense department.

Fortunately I do have enough common sense not to spend any more time on your suggestions but thank you anyway.
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7/18/2015 12:38am
I hate to hear about your mom! It sounds like your lucky to have her still around! I wish her a full and speedy recovery.
7/18/2015 4:29pm
66 year old. Medicare/Medicaid. Hope the recovery goes well.

Hospital will discount based on income as well....

Just other options.
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7/18/2015 6:26pm
66 year old. Medicare/Medicaid. Hope the recovery goes well.

Hospital will discount based on income as well....

Just other options.
Could always post a craigslist ad to sell a brand new KX450 for $3000 cash and hold the guy up at gunpoint.

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7/19/2015 10:57am
newmann wrote:
Go fund me type sites are running rampant with scammers. Posts like this should not be allowed until they have been thoroughly researched and approved by...
Go fund me type sites are running rampant with scammers. Posts like this should not be allowed until they have been thoroughly researched and approved by Vital staff.

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I had actually brought this up to ML a while back. Making a separate section for gofundme and such so that people who want to donate...
I had actually brought this up to ML a while back. Making a separate section for gofundme and such so that people who want to donate can look there, but those who don't want to donate aren't having it pushed on them. It really should have its own section since lately when something bad happens, the first thing to do is set up a donation account and ask. It's become way too easy for people to put their hand out these days, and people have no hesitation in doing so. I don't really understand it. When I got hurt this year, the only thing I asked for was well wishes and visits! I understand the medical bills, long recovery, etc. I haven't been to work since April 18. And I'll be lucky to get back to light duty maybe around September sometime. I still wouldn't accept donations.

I feel for the OP's family member. But $28,000?!? Where'd that number even come from? And what exactly is it going to be used for? $28,000 buys a hell of a laptop. That's not asking for a small cash reserve (which hopefully she has some cash reserve already). The track is really the ones who should be trying to cover expenses...but even so, you wonder what she was doing out of the spectator area. Hope she gets well soon.

Shane
Shane, there is a reason that you're my favorite poster. Heal up soon brother!
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7/19/2015 8:57pm
Wow!!! This has been quite a post/read. First, I'd like to wish his mother a speedy/full recovery. Second, I'll offer an apology for the pain that this post has put you through. Just this morning I was speaking to my wife about GoFundMe and what is real vs a scam. While I realize that there are those who may use unfortunate situations to take advantage of others I think it was "In Poor Taste" to attack this guy. Let's assume this is for real and imagine how bad he felt (over this tragedy) before reading these attacks/negative posts. Some of you show more compassion for a stolen bike than you did for a guy that almost lost his mother. Let's assume this was a scam; so don't contribute, but don't kick a man when he is down! If you don't have something nice to say don't say anything! We know that the accident is REAL and imagine how that woman will feel when she hears that her tragedy spawned so much negativity!
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7/19/2015 9:08pm
Iwannaride wrote:
Wow!!! This has been quite a post/read. First, I'd like to wish his mother a speedy/full recovery. Second, I'll offer an apology for the pain that...
Wow!!! This has been quite a post/read. First, I'd like to wish his mother a speedy/full recovery. Second, I'll offer an apology for the pain that this post has put you through. Just this morning I was speaking to my wife about GoFundMe and what is real vs a scam. While I realize that there are those who may use unfortunate situations to take advantage of others I think it was "In Poor Taste" to attack this guy. Let's assume this is for real and imagine how bad he felt (over this tragedy) before reading these attacks/negative posts. Some of you show more compassion for a stolen bike than you did for a guy that almost lost his mother. Let's assume this was a scam; so don't contribute, but don't kick a man when he is down! If you don't have something nice to say don't say anything! We know that the accident is REAL and imagine how that woman will feel when she hears that her tragedy spawned so much negativity!
BOOM!
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7/19/2015 10:09pm
Iwannaride wrote:
Wow!!! This has been quite a post/read. First, I'd like to wish his mother a speedy/full recovery. Second, I'll offer an apology for the pain that...
Wow!!! This has been quite a post/read. First, I'd like to wish his mother a speedy/full recovery. Second, I'll offer an apology for the pain that this post has put you through. Just this morning I was speaking to my wife about GoFundMe and what is real vs a scam. While I realize that there are those who may use unfortunate situations to take advantage of others I think it was "In Poor Taste" to attack this guy. Let's assume this is for real and imagine how bad he felt (over this tragedy) before reading these attacks/negative posts. Some of you show more compassion for a stolen bike than you did for a guy that almost lost his mother. Let's assume this was a scam; so don't contribute, but don't kick a man when he is down! If you don't have something nice to say don't say anything! We know that the accident is REAL and imagine how that woman will feel when she hears that her tragedy spawned so much negativity!
TeamGreen wrote:
BOOM!
BOOM X 2

Any updates on mom?
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7/19/2015 10:23pm
moscrop940 wrote:
Fuck you guys are pretty gnarly on this kid. "O wait you don't come on this board on a regular bases and beat off to all...
Fuck you guys are pretty gnarly on this kid.

"O wait you don't come on this board on a regular bases and beat off to all the shit talking, fuck no I'm not giving you any money in your time of need"

The story seems valid enough.

With your guys thought process I assume you never help out the guy on the corner because you assume he is going to buy booze with it....who gives a shit what he does with it. Do it to be a good person and hope the money is going to good use.

You don't have to donate, but talking shit and voicing your objections is pretty pathetic.
The Rock wrote:
My sentiments exactly. If you don't want to donate then move on. Bunch of cold hearted SOBs to pile on this kid when he is worried...
My sentiments exactly. If you don't want to donate then move on. Bunch of cold hearted SOBs to pile on this kid when he is worried about my mom.

Just another example of the negativity many (but not all fortunately) of you like to spew. Glad I had parents that raised me to have compassion.

EDIT GrapeApe ever think for a second you are in a much better situation to be offering advice given there is no stress on you? First the kid gets crucified then you tell him how he should have done it. How exactly does that help this family now?
Co-signed. Good to have people like The Rock and moscrop around.

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7/19/2015 10:28pm Edited Date/Time 7/19/2015 10:29pm
Iwannaride wrote:
Wow!!! This has been quite a post/read. First, I'd like to wish his mother a speedy/full recovery. Second, I'll offer an apology for the pain that...
Wow!!! This has been quite a post/read. First, I'd like to wish his mother a speedy/full recovery. Second, I'll offer an apology for the pain that this post has put you through. Just this morning I was speaking to my wife about GoFundMe and what is real vs a scam. While I realize that there are those who may use unfortunate situations to take advantage of others I think it was "In Poor Taste" to attack this guy. Let's assume this is for real and imagine how bad he felt (over this tragedy) before reading these attacks/negative posts. Some of you show more compassion for a stolen bike than you did for a guy that almost lost his mother. Let's assume this was a scam; so don't contribute, but don't kick a man when he is down! If you don't have something nice to say don't say anything! We know that the accident is REAL and imagine how that woman will feel when she hears that her tragedy spawned so much negativity!
Boom x 3
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7/20/2015 2:57am Edited Date/Time 7/20/2015 3:00am
First 1 sucker. Then 2 suckers, 3 suckers, now 4. Apparently, there's one born every minute, so I'm certain there'll be more.

How's the air up there fellas? You blokes need to have another think about it.

BTW. How much did ya's donate? Pffffft

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7/20/2015 5:13am
#991 wrote:
First 1 sucker. Then 2 suckers, 3 suckers, now 4. Apparently, there's one born every minute, so I'm certain there'll be more. How's the air up...
First 1 sucker. Then 2 suckers, 3 suckers, now 4. Apparently, there's one born every minute, so I'm certain there'll be more.

How's the air up there fellas? You blokes need to have another think about it.

BTW. How much did ya's donate? Pffffft

#991 your level of compassion is matched by your lack of intelligence. You just don't get what I said, so I won't waste any more time trying to explain it to you.

The air is fine.
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7/20/2015 5:25am
Iwannaride wrote:
Wow!!! This has been quite a post/read. First, I'd like to wish his mother a speedy/full recovery. Second, I'll offer an apology for the pain that...
Wow!!! This has been quite a post/read. First, I'd like to wish his mother a speedy/full recovery. Second, I'll offer an apology for the pain that this post has put you through. Just this morning I was speaking to my wife about GoFundMe and what is real vs a scam. While I realize that there are those who may use unfortunate situations to take advantage of others I think it was "In Poor Taste" to attack this guy. Let's assume this is for real and imagine how bad he felt (over this tragedy) before reading these attacks/negative posts. Some of you show more compassion for a stolen bike than you did for a guy that almost lost his mother. Let's assume this was a scam; so don't contribute, but don't kick a man when he is down! If you don't have something nice to say don't say anything! We know that the accident is REAL and imagine how that woman will feel when she hears that her tragedy spawned so much negativity!
HazemG wrote:
Boom x 3
Nice post, but the "guy" that you're referring to is apparently a young lady. Her name is Retta, and I hope her mother is doing better.
7/20/2015 5:30am
The herding Mentality of Vital strikes again, glad to see you guys keeping in classy.
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7/20/2015 5:46am
So it's only ok to state our opinions if they match your opinions? Makes sense. Sounds like the rest of liberal America.
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7/20/2015 6:00am
The asshats are strong in this thread............
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7/20/2015 6:01am
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I'll ask her. There's different factors and so many rules and they seem to change daily. I would assume that big amounts would incure a tax...
I'll ask her. There's different factors and so many rules and they seem to change daily. I would assume that big amounts would incure a tax liability. Not the typical GoFundMe amounts of $5, $10, $20
As long as they're gifts, I don't think the amount matters for income tax purposes. Gift tax may be another story, especially if the receiver of...
As long as they're gifts, I don't think the amount matters for income tax purposes. Gift tax may be another story, especially if the receiver of the gift is not a charitable org. I've often wondered since the GoFundMe has become so popular.
Over $14,000 is taxable in 2015....


http://www.irs.gov/Businesses/Small-Businesses-&-Self-Employed/Frequent…


Otherwise, people with large estates could get around the death tax by 'gifting' their money to their heirs.



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7/20/2015 6:10am
JBlain619 wrote:
I'll ask her. There's different factors and so many rules and they seem to change daily. I would assume that big amounts would incure a tax...
I'll ask her. There's different factors and so many rules and they seem to change daily. I would assume that big amounts would incure a tax liability. Not the typical GoFundMe amounts of $5, $10, $20
As long as they're gifts, I don't think the amount matters for income tax purposes. Gift tax may be another story, especially if the receiver of...
As long as they're gifts, I don't think the amount matters for income tax purposes. Gift tax may be another story, especially if the receiver of the gift is not a charitable org. I've often wondered since the GoFundMe has become so popular.
huck wrote:
Over $14,000 is taxable in 2015....


http://www.irs.gov/Businesses/Small-Businesses-&-Self-Employed/Frequent…


Otherwise, people with large estates could get around the death tax by 'gifting' their money to their heirs.



I did spend a few minutes looking into this and came to the conclusion that gift tax is an issue for the donor, not the person receiving the gift. Also, the gift tax is used to keep wealthy people from avoiding estate tax, by gifting everything away before they die, as you stated. They can gift up to 14k per person/year without consequence, but anything over that amount will be subject to a tax on the donor. Does this sound correct? It's not an issue for the person receiving the gift, as far as I can decipher.
7/20/2015 6:16am
So it's only ok to state our opinions if they match your opinions? Makes sense. Sounds like the rest of liberal America.
State your opinion all you want, I'm just saying sometimes its ok to show a little class.
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7/20/2015 6:24am
So it's only ok to state our opinions if they match your opinions? Makes sense. Sounds like the rest of liberal America.
UpTiTe wrote:
State your opinion all you want, I'm just saying sometimes its ok to show a little class.
The op asked for $28,000 to buy a laptop then wished tragedy on anyone that questioned their tactics and I'm the one that needs to show a little class...
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7/20/2015 6:24am
So it's only ok to state our opinions if they match your opinions? Makes sense. Sounds like the rest of liberal America.
UpTiTe wrote:
State your opinion all you want, I'm just saying sometimes its ok to show a little class.
Agreed!!!
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7/20/2015 6:41am
As long as they're gifts, I don't think the amount matters for income tax purposes. Gift tax may be another story, especially if the receiver of...
As long as they're gifts, I don't think the amount matters for income tax purposes. Gift tax may be another story, especially if the receiver of the gift is not a charitable org. I've often wondered since the GoFundMe has become so popular.
huck wrote:
Over $14,000 is taxable in 2015....


http://www.irs.gov/Businesses/Small-Businesses-&-Self-Employed/Frequent…


Otherwise, people with large estates could get around the death tax by 'gifting' their money to their heirs.



I did spend a few minutes looking into this and came to the conclusion that gift tax is an issue for the donor, not the person...
I did spend a few minutes looking into this and came to the conclusion that gift tax is an issue for the donor, not the person receiving the gift. Also, the gift tax is used to keep wealthy people from avoiding estate tax, by gifting everything away before they die, as you stated. They can gift up to 14k per person/year without consequence, but anything over that amount will be subject to a tax on the donor. Does this sound correct? It's not an issue for the person receiving the gift, as far as I can decipher.
That's the way I see it too...
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7/20/2015 6:47am
Shane, there is a reason that you're my favorite poster. Heal up soon brother!
Thanks for the compliment man! The struggle is real but making slow progress. Last week I was finally able to make full revolutions on the seated elliptical. They were slow and rough, but it's progress. Back to the doc next week for more X-rays to see if anything is blocking the range of motion or if it's just scar tissue. And to hopefully get the go ahead to start transitioning to weight bearing and life on two legs again!

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7/20/2015 6:53am Edited Date/Time 7/20/2015 6:58am
huck wrote:
That's the way I see it too...
The income tax side is a separate issue, here's an interesting article about that
http://www.nbcnews.com/tech/innovation/raised-money-kickstarter-time-pa…
"Pure donative intent" seems to be the safe haven for GFM
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7/20/2015 6:58am Edited Date/Time 7/20/2015 8:16am
#991 wrote:
First 1 sucker. Then 2 suckers, 3 suckers, now 4. Apparently, there's one born every minute, so I'm certain there'll be more. How's the air up...
First 1 sucker. Then 2 suckers, 3 suckers, now 4. Apparently, there's one born every minute, so I'm certain there'll be more.

How's the air up there fellas? You blokes need to have another think about it.

BTW. How much did ya's donate? Pffffft

Iwannaride wrote:
#991 your level of compassion is matched by your lack of intelligence. You just don't get what I said, so I won't waste any more time...
#991 your level of compassion is matched by your lack of intelligence. You just don't get what I said, so I won't waste any more time trying to explain it to you.

The air is fine.
I lack Intelligence ya reckon. OK Laughing . OP just wanted to create awareness ya think? LMAO! Yeah, around 28K's worth of it.

You did read all the OP's posts didn't you. Before you reply, take the time to realize I just provided you with an "out".
How's that for compassion?

My old man blew his head off with a shotgun under the chin in front of me when I was 10. I'm uneducated/self educated so I've never had a decent job. I don't sleep, and I'm broke. What do ya reckon that'd be worth if I exploited it and used it as an opportunity to financially enrich myself?
Maybe I should have but lacked the Intelligence. What do you think? You obviously have a better moral compass and a lot more Intelligence than myself.
I'll tell ya what mate. You setup the "Fund me" page and I'll Go ya halves in the dollars. We'll kill it!

I'd be happy with 12.5K. Proving to the OP that I'm not the greedy bugger she accused me of being at all. OK, well not in comparison to the OP's greed at least Wink .

I wish the mother a speedy recovery. I assumed that'd be a "given". But. . Ned said it best. "Such is Life".
Life hasn't been all that kind to me either. (You should see my head). But, I've never held my hand out. Especially to strangers. But then, I don't "pan handle".

If you can't see this for what it is, I pity you. How's that for compassion?

IMO. The thread wasn't Intended to exploit your compassion, It was fully Intended to exploit your guilt. Ie. Guilt by association.
The Catholic Church have been exploiting it for yrs. Any Idea of their bank account balance?


BTW. I have Asperger's. I don't lack compassion. I have 8 cats ATM and had 8 dogs not long ago. All strays. I do however lack empathy. I just save my compassion for those who truly deserve it.

Secondly. I'd suggest "the air up there" would be pretty thin. Hence. I'd also suggest taking a big, deep breath and try to get some oxygen to your brain.
7/20/2015 7:02am
A 66 year old person is "covered"

Did you guys sign up at healthcare.gov ?

There shouldn't be any monetary problems here when she will be receiving care. It will be paid for.
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7/20/2015 7:24am Edited Date/Time 7/20/2015 7:26am
The OP is well "aware" of that. The 28K is to build awareness Wink . Ie, protecting us from ourselves. The 28K is actually for our benefit. No doubt!
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7/20/2015 7:44am
So it's only ok to state our opinions if they match your opinions? Makes sense. Sounds like the rest of liberal America.
UpTiTe wrote:
State your opinion all you want, I'm just saying sometimes its ok to show a little class.
The op asked for $28,000 to buy a laptop then wished tragedy on anyone that questioned their tactics and I'm the one that needs to show...
The op asked for $28,000 to buy a laptop then wished tragedy on anyone that questioned their tactics and I'm the one that needs to show a little class...
I think I am in the minority here, but I agree with you. I most definitely would have figured out what insurance was going to cover (especially at age 66) before I did a lot of things the OP did first. Setting up a gofundme should not be your first reaction to a tragedy. These days............... (you get my point).
7/20/2015 7:48am
So it's only ok to state our opinions if they match your opinions? Makes sense. Sounds like the rest of liberal America.
UpTiTe wrote:
State your opinion all you want, I'm just saying sometimes its ok to show a little class.
The op asked for $28,000 to buy a laptop then wished tragedy on anyone that questioned their tactics and I'm the one that needs to show...
The op asked for $28,000 to buy a laptop then wished tragedy on anyone that questioned their tactics and I'm the one that needs to show a little class...
Some times its ok to rise above.
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7/20/2015 8:33am
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Some of you are fucking dickheads,good god.
+1

So you really think when your Mom is in ICU that people are thinking how to best present a story?
Most people have no idea all the extra expenses that go along with a major medical issue.
For all of you that think it's just the medical bills, I pray you never have to go through it and find out.
There are a lot of bills that will happen long before any insurance money will ever be seen. In addition
there are expenses that will come up that will never be reimbursed. Never used Go Fund Me but when you see
all the other people getting help for "please fund my vacation" it seems logical to tap into some help there for
what really is a tragedy. If you don't want to help, don't.
Not speaking from the "moral high ground" just the misfortune of experience.
In anticipation of all you telling me to Go Fu** Myself, the line forms to the left,
TM

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