Alcoholics Anonymous

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Edited Date/Time 5/8/2014 11:30am
I saw a South Park episode last night that was about Alcoholics Anonymous. They showed the 12 steps and I thought it was just SP satire. I looked it up this morning and it was the real deal. I had no idea that it was all about God and his powers and not yours. Am I reading this wrong?

1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
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5/7/2014 7:31am Edited Date/Time 5/7/2014 7:33am
I don't catch South Park very oftern but Trey Parker and Matt Stone are comedy geniuses. Ever seen the mormon episode? Pretty accurate and hilarious.

I have a friend from high school that had to enter an Alcoholics Anonymous type program and live in a halfway house for awhile. He came out super religious. Like almost creationism religious, but don't try to reseason with him, He's happy. His beliefs offer him a sense of hope and strength and even a strong sense of community with like-minded people. I'm not particularly religious myself, but I certainly respect the positive effect it has on some people though I still believe the same result can be achieved with secular worldview.
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5/7/2014 8:40am
it's not about God or religion , it's about a higher power and for most faith is the only way to endure the torture the brain inflicts when getting sober.

I'm not an advocate of AA but , I do see that it does help many people.

it's all about giving your troubles to a higher power.
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5/7/2014 8:42am
The "admitting I was powerless" was the deal breaker for me.... Well, that and the "one day at a time" thing ?

I decided it was best for me to take control of my situation and stop forever, that was 9 years ago.
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5/7/2014 8:55am
I found it easier to just keep drinking.

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5/7/2014 9:19am
AA was started by a non-denominational Christian group to help with the influx of alcoholics after prohibition ended.
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5/7/2014 10:00am
Alcoholics Anonymous is for quitters.
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5/7/2014 10:07am
500guy wrote:
it's not about God or religion , it's about a higher power and for most faith is the only way to endure the torture the brain...
it's not about God or religion , it's about a higher power and for most faith is the only way to endure the torture the brain inflicts when getting sober.

I'm not an advocate of AA but , I do see that it does help many people.

it's all about giving your troubles to a higher power.
Its all about brainwashing.

most come out of aa a complete nutcase.
5/7/2014 10:11am
500guy wrote:
it's not about God or religion , it's about a higher power and for most faith is the only way to endure the torture the brain...
it's not about God or religion , it's about a higher power and for most faith is the only way to endure the torture the brain inflicts when getting sober.

I'm not an advocate of AA but , I do see that it does help many people.

it's all about giving your troubles to a higher power.
JordanB wrote:
Its all about brainwashing.

most come out of aa a complete nutcase.
I would guess most go in in pretty bad shape. I don't see how they could come out in worse.
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5/7/2014 11:51am
AA was started by a non-denominational Christian group to help with the influx of alcoholics after prohibition ended.
motosmith wrote:
No group, it was started by Bill Wilson.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcoholics_Anonymous
From the article:

"AA sprang from The Oxford Group, a non-denominational movement modeled after first-century Christianity.[18] Some members found the Group to help in maintaining sobriety. One such "Grouper", as they were called, was Ebby Thacher, Wilson's former drinking buddy and his acknowledged sponsor. Following the evangelical bent of the Group, Thacher told Wilson that he had "got religion" and was sober, and that Wilson could do the same if he set aside objections to religion and instead formed a personal idea of God, "another power" or "higher power"."
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5/7/2014 11:54am
It's the same deal as basic training in the army.

It's designed to break you down into nothing so they can build you back up with their ideals.

There's a growing movement of humanist AA chapters that have removed god from the equation. I think that it's a great idea.
5/7/2014 11:56am
AA was started by a non-denominational Christian group to help with the influx of alcoholics after prohibition ended.
motosmith wrote:
No group, it was started by Bill Wilson.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcoholics_Anonymous
AA had a organic beginning with it originating from people who were involved in the Oxford Group. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxford_Group of which Bill Wilson was associated with and from which a lot of it methods / beliefs are derived from.
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5/7/2014 12:42pm Edited Date/Time 5/7/2014 12:43pm
Pond Scum wrote:
The "admitting I was powerless" was the deal breaker for me.... Well, that and the "one day at a time" thing ? I decided it was...
The "admitting I was powerless" was the deal breaker for me.... Well, that and the "one day at a time" thing ?

I decided it was best for me to take control of my situation and stop forever, that was 9 years ago.
10 years this September 2nd. No AA no one day at the time. Just took my life in my hands. It was a hard first year. Couldn`t find my place in life.
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Pond Scum wrote:
The "admitting I was powerless" was the deal breaker for me.... Well, that and the "one day at a time" thing ? I decided it was...
The "admitting I was powerless" was the deal breaker for me.... Well, that and the "one day at a time" thing ?

I decided it was best for me to take control of my situation and stop forever, that was 9 years ago.
kongols wrote:
10 years this September 2nd. No AA no one day at the time. Just took my life in my hands. It was a hard first year...
10 years this September 2nd. No AA no one day at the time. Just took my life in my hands. It was a hard first year. Couldn`t find my place in life.
I quit after a week of Mammoth, on the way home I just decided I'd had enough.
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5/7/2014 1:31pm
Pond Scum wrote:
I quit after a week of Mammoth, on the way home I just decided I'd had enough.
What was it abiut Mammoth the races?
5/7/2014 1:37pm
I dated a girl who went to weekly meetings. I went along for support. After some of the best sex of my...oh, wait, getting off track....after hanging out with her for 4 or 5 months, I noticed the AA types drink crazy amounts of coffee and smoke like I never thought possible. In this group, all seemed like good people and I was comfortable hanging out with them. But every now and then they would start talking about their drug/drinking days and some of the shit they talked about scared the hell out of me. Drugs and alcohol just ruled these people 24/7.
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It took me until my 3rd cruise to figure why some "Bill W" guy was so popular and also on every cruise I went on.....

Every day's cruise agenda had a meeting scheduled for "friends of Bill W". I figured he must be a pretty popular guy- until I finally asked someone with the cruise line what that was all about.
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In California going to aa for duis can sometimes get it off your record....for first timers.
5/7/2014 4:13pm Edited Date/Time 5/7/2014 4:24pm
Coming up on 8 years clean. Did the NA, AA, CA (cocaine anonymous), tour, attended over 500 meetings in the first two years.

Did the step work. But I will say I was about two weeks clean, having decided on my own to quit, before I went to my first meeting. It was a way to keep focused on the goal. Lots of fucked up shit and people, but some cool ones as well.

Never forget the dude who came in sipping on a plastic Mountain Dew bottle, filled with beer. Or another guy that rolled his own cigarettes, who whipped about an ounce size baggie of tobacco, and started spinning one up as he sat in his chair right before the meeting. That probably triggered a relapse or two.Laughing

It is kind of sad though, when you watch people go back out. Have attended more than a few services for people I grew to know.

What was really cool was to run into a few people from my teen years at meetings, who I had not seen in 20-30- years, trying to get their lives back.
5/7/2014 7:30pm
Oh the irony of smoking cigs like a chimney while talking to each other about the evils of beer.
Cigs are the deadliest by far.
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5/7/2014 8:21pm
Sounds like a bunch of unmotivated losers with no self control that need a babysitter.

like the fat bitch that washes down 2 tubs of ice cream each night with a 2 liter bottle of diet coke and sits on her ass watching jerry springer.
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JordanB wrote:
Sounds like a bunch of unmotivated losers with no self control that need a babysitter. like the fat bitch that washes down 2 tubs of ice...
Sounds like a bunch of unmotivated losers with no self control that need a babysitter.

like the fat bitch that washes down 2 tubs of ice cream each night with a 2 liter bottle of diet coke and sits on her ass watching jerry springer.
Thanks for your insight. You were awesome.
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5/7/2014 8:56pm Edited Date/Time 5/8/2014 8:22pm
AA saved my parents, I wasn't "into it" although I knew all about it from the years they were involved with AA. I started late due to the fact in my teens I was a dedicated moto guy hoping I could make it big. When it was apparent that wasn't gunna happen started partying once in awhile and 10 years later I had a BIG problem with it....when I almost lost my wife and a job I quit cold turkey... Been sober 26 years. When people ask why I don't drink tell them I was a "Pro" and retired....
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5/8/2014 4:58am
Some pretty fucked up people in this thread, oh and clueless also.
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JordanB wrote:
Sounds like a bunch of unmotivated losers with no self control that need a babysitter. like the fat bitch that washes down 2 tubs of ice...
Sounds like a bunch of unmotivated losers with no self control that need a babysitter.

like the fat bitch that washes down 2 tubs of ice cream each night with a 2 liter bottle of diet coke and sits on her ass watching jerry springer.
kongols wrote:
Thanks for your insight. You were awesome.
He's obviously been through it and is very knowledgeable.
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Pond Scum wrote:
I quit after a week of Mammoth, on the way home I just decided I'd had enough.
JordanB wrote:
What was it abiut Mammoth the races?
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It is a horrible disease. My in laws drink only alcohol and wake up to vodka. I don't know how they do it but it's been the same for the 25 years I have known them. They were really wealthy but not so much these days. They are really nice people but incoherent most of each day. They think they are 18 most of the time and louder than anyone everywhere you go. They can't hear a word anyone says to them. They talk right through everyone. It's really gross most of the time. They will be wasted and falling down out of control and then the next day swear they were shorting them on alcohol on their drinks the night before and they couldn't get drunk. Can't pass any bar with out stopping. It's too late for them. No changing.
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5/8/2014 8:28am Edited Date/Time 5/8/2014 8:30am
My Dad went from a case or 2 of beer a day when he was 40, to 35 years sober because of AA. HE went from a sure death to building and and flying an ultralights 1/2 way around the world. He is 75 now and still alive because of AA. He's is far from brainwashed, unmotivated or a loser. Everyone is different, it's a mix of some crap and some great stuff. Some people don't have friends or any kind of support, just the fact that you have somewhere to go instead of starring at the walls is a big help. That's about as far as i will go into it.
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5/8/2014 11:26am Edited Date/Time 5/8/2014 11:27am
While AA is not for everyone, it does help a lot of people. It has helped a lot of people I know. I don't agree with needing a higher power to beat it, but it seems to help a lot of people.

I never started drinking alcohol. I saw what it was doing to some of the older people in my life and decided not to drink alcohol.

My mom's new boyfriend has been sober for 20 years. I really doubt he has been sober the whole time but he goes to the meetings a few times a week at, 'the club' down the street. Like the Friends of Bill W on the cruise, I often wondered why he went to this club so often
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Crash82 wrote:
My Dad went from a case or 2 of beer a day when he was 40, to 35 years sober because of AA. HE went from...
My Dad went from a case or 2 of beer a day when he was 40, to 35 years sober because of AA. HE went from a sure death to building and and flying an ultralights 1/2 way around the world. He is 75 now and still alive because of AA. He's is far from brainwashed, unmotivated or a loser. Everyone is different, it's a mix of some crap and some great stuff. Some people don't have friends or any kind of support, just the fact that you have somewhere to go instead of starring at the walls is a big help. That's about as far as i will go into it.
Excellent perspective. is it for everyone ? = No

Has it done some good ? = Absolutely!

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