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I can barely manage riding just myself, and have 1 kid that has ZERO interest in riding.
My daughter is not here yet, but my racing days are already fading into the musty recesses of my memory.
It's hard to justify money on the scooter with a new mouth to feed, unless you're rich.
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That said, you really need to speak with your lady, nothing fun to look forward to is no way to live. If I didn't have something to do, I would lose it.
Advice? Don't stop living just because you have kids.
Race a hare and hound on the 12th...rode this past Saturday...will likely ride on Wednesday. Will race a national hare and hound on the 3rd...then another hare and hound on the 17th. Hopefully ride in between at least once.
My goal is once a week to get out...even if only for a few hours....that happens sometimes (like now) and other times I'll go months between rides.
It just depends on the kids schedules, wifes mood, work, how well our newborn sleeps at night (which isn't a lot right now), and other obligations...it sure isn't easy...but its a matter of priorities...and in order to do it, I have to put riding above sleep on the priority list (I'll be hitting the road at 6:30 AM in order to get a ride in on Wednesday), and my yard looks like crap (needs fertilizer, weeds pulled, and mowed).
Priorities, priorities.
She'll let me do whatever I want, but its as much a courtesy to her as anything...our kids are busy (dance, soccer, school things, etc.) so it helps her-and me, because I try and make all the dance recitals, and soccer games, and school things-to plan ahead...and it also sets an expectation well in advance that I'll be gone that day...and I also try and be courteous to her, and if kids are sick or she is sick, or she has a million things going on, I call off the riding and help her out. I love to ride dirt bikes (and LOVE LOVE to race dirt bikes), but they aren't more important than my family...
The next thing is include her and the kids...I took them out to the first hare and hound last weekend...and it changed her attitude a bit about it. She likes it, the kids like it...so if they can come its now a "family outing" rather than a "hobby" (even though I'm the only one that rides). I'm not sure how many they will come out to (since we have a 5 month old...and the middle of nowhere just isn't all the fun with a 5 month old).
Anyway...I'd be lying if I said we didn't have an argument or five hundred about me riding...but I loved dirt bikes before I loved her, so she just has to deal with it (and NO, I've never told her that before...and I don't plan on ever telling her that. lol)...
Cuts down on the parts bill, but also lets the skill sets soften.
I'm getting the itch to hit the bomber class one of these fine days...
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BTW a friend of mine Todd Weindell through 2strokeMX just bought a brand new Husky 250 2-stroke today.
now that he doesn't have to haul my ass all over the place he only does select races and rides whenever possible
dont ask me how he did it but if you love riding you will find a way for it to work
It paid if I died racing,when driving a 74 motohome 10 hrs or pulling on a full gate it was comforting to know,
If I eat the big moto dirt sandwich that my kids were set.
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