Children, after divorce.

Pixie
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5/11/2011 3:40pm
Pixie wrote:
Just so you are aware, Sonny, those pics have been up for several weeks, I was just recently allowed to publish them. I have been on...
Just so you are aware, Sonny, those pics have been up for several weeks, I was just recently allowed to publish them. I have been on these boards as long as Mutt and you don't know what you're talking about. I don't need to say anything further because the people who know......know. Carry on, love the evil bitch with tons of anger. =)
Sonny wrote:
I probably would but you're too far away. What I do know is that this is probably all too embarrassing for Mutt and should be for...
I probably would but you're too far away. What I do know is that this is probably all too embarrassing for Mutt and should be for you as well. I also know that you are too hot for your new man. You probably like it that way, because no matter what a great guy he may be, you'll have at least 51% control over the relationship. Hey..... someone has to call the shots.
That's 100% more that you've ever had over this Mutt character. Doesn't that burn your ass?
What are you talking about, I was way too hot for Mutt.
I've known my man since we were 14, I think he's way hot and I feel blessed to be with him, that's my opinion.

Mutt....is that you? Unsure
jonjon714
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5/11/2011 3:46pm
JPT wrote:
I was afraid that this thread would turn nasty at some point. Up to now it's been folks discussing the pain and difficulties of divorce with...
I was afraid that this thread would turn nasty at some point. Up to now it's been folks discussing the pain and difficulties of divorce with kids from just about every perspective, husband, wife, step-parent, grown kids. With very few exceptions, no one is the complete bad guy or the angel. Anger and hurt make people do some pretty shitty things.

I suppose it's to late too hope it can return to a reasonably respectful discussion?
There's only one hope at this point...

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5/11/2011 4:04pm
JPT wrote:
I was afraid that this thread would turn nasty at some point. Up to now it's been folks discussing the pain and difficulties of divorce with...
I was afraid that this thread would turn nasty at some point. Up to now it's been folks discussing the pain and difficulties of divorce with kids from just about every perspective, husband, wife, step-parent, grown kids. With very few exceptions, no one is the complete bad guy or the angel. Anger and hurt make people do some pretty shitty things.

I suppose it's to late too hope it can return to a reasonably respectful discussion?
jonjon714 wrote:
There's only one hope at this point... [img]http://cdn01.cdn.socialitelife.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/30751_dr_phil_010608-430x549.jpg[/img]
There's only one hope at this point...

Now see, exactly what I meant, I'm trying to be helpful and you get insulting.Wink
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5/11/2011 4:32pm Edited Date/Time 5/11/2011 5:12pm
No, I’m no Mutt, actually I’m a Purebred. Thank you. I wouldn’t know this Mutt if he walked up to me. But I’ll bet you were way too hot for him too. God forbid if you have to see your man on an even keel.
For the record, and correct me if I’m wrong. This first picture is him “the New Man” and the second would be none other than you? See it proves my point, he’s not even in your ballpark. Either those pretty blue eye don’t work that well or you have slim pickings in Grove, Oklahoma. What I'd like to know is which dude put up the cash for the implants? All those kids, don't match what I see in the stars and strips pic.



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5/11/2011 5:43pm
Huck, u are kind of a fuckstick, but hopefully you have never gone to walk out the door to go riding and had her yell "I...
Huck, u are kind of a fuckstick, but hopefully you have never gone to walk out the door to go riding and had her yell "I hope you break your fuckin neck today!" and hear shit hitting the door behind you.
Maybe you hould have stayed home?
Pixie
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5/11/2011 5:48pm Edited Date/Time 5/11/2011 5:49pm
Sonny, I don't have implants although after three kids I would appreciate some.

You obviously seem concerned with looks alone. I am really not hot at all. Seriously. Also, I have known Riley most of my life and we have both aged plenty but I still see that cute kid I knew in the 9th grade and the huge heart he has.
It's not a matter of slim pickings in Oklahoma because I have only been here 2 years. I have lived on both coasts and everywhere in between and will be moving back to NM in the next 2 months where both Riley and Mutt live. I'm hoping it will be easier for Mutt to see his kids and Riley is opening a pizza joint with another friend from high school.
I am not meaning to slander Mutt, I just repeatedly see how he talks about me and felt it was only fair that I reply once on my behalf. The facts are the facts and the real truth between both of our sides is still out there somewhere. Of course we're both biased. I have more to tell but that would be true slander.

Please stop judging people on looks because I feel so happy to be with my man who I have crushed on my whole life. Yep, I'm marrying my high school crush. A lot of the guys on this board have seen me through the years and the preganancies and know me somewhat. They saw me stand up for and support Mutt through it all(and he did for me also) and it is unfortunate that things turned out the way they did....but they did.


If you have a lady in your life cherish her.
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5/11/2011 6:00pm Edited Date/Time 5/11/2011 6:02pm
huck wrote:
I've been married for 15 years (last february). The last year has been pretty difficult at times...with the talk of a "D" a couple of times...
I've been married for 15 years (last february).

The last year has been pretty difficult at times...with the talk of a "D" a couple of times. I can honestly say, if not for my kids, I probably would have left.......


I guess there is a fine line between trying to work it out for the kids...and being away from each other and letting the kids see you happy.
That's the tough one to answer, Hick. I stuck around for 10 years in a doomed marriage (married a total of 19) because I knew that if I left, the ex couldn't handle raising my son properly without me there to make sure he was properly taken care of. The result is the boy, 15, sits PIC (pilot in command) when he flies helicopters (very unusual, especially at his age), and he's on a path to med school to become a surgeon. His teachers and anyone he crosses paths with says he is a young man of amazing integrity. If I divorced when we wanted to, I highly doubt he'd be as mature and emotionally stable as he is now.

The trick was to hide the issues. We rarely argued in front of him...we wore poker faces for those years. It sucked. The bed was cold, there was no future, and there was only waiting for the end. But, she was willing to play along for our son, and for that, I have to thank the ex. Neither of us were happy in any way for ourselves, but the kid didn't even get a clue until about the last year of our marriage.


Kids first. No matter what it takes. In my opinion, unless there is true physical abuse or safety issues, divorce is a cop-out of behaving like a true parent. The birth of my son enlightened me to my purpose on this planet...and I'm going to make sure the person I leave behind is a much better person than I ever was.

Good luck. I hope it works for for you and yours. Try and make it happen at least temporarily for the kids. I've met you, and I believe you have the qualities to make it work for them.
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5/11/2011 7:02pm Edited Date/Time 5/11/2011 7:06pm
Sorry to hear about the devorce Pixie and Mutt, you guys have beautiful kids together and it's a sad deal! Good luck to the both of you and the kids. I'm sure things will smooth out for you guys as time goes on! Best wishes! Sonny quit being a prick!
5/11/2011 7:04pm
Huck, u are kind of a fuckstick, but hopefully you have never gone to walk out the door to go riding and had her yell "I...
Huck, u are kind of a fuckstick, but hopefully you have never gone to walk out the door to go riding and had her yell "I hope you break your fuckin neck today!" and hear shit hitting the door behind you.
UpTiTe wrote:
Maybe you hould have stayed home?
Are you shitting me? What kind of pussy whipped mother fucker would turn around and sit on the couch after hearing that shit? She always knew well in advance of when I was going racing and when I wasnt. What I should have done, is divorce her then, three to four years before I did.
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5/11/2011 7:05pm Edited Date/Time 5/11/2011 7:08pm
Pixie wrote:
Sonny, I don't have implants although after three kids I would appreciate some. You obviously seem concerned with looks alone. I am really not hot at...
Sonny, I don't have implants although after three kids I would appreciate some.

You obviously seem concerned with looks alone. I am really not hot at all. Seriously. Also, I have known Riley most of my life and we have both aged plenty but I still see that cute kid I knew in the 9th grade and the huge heart he has.
It's not a matter of slim pickings in Oklahoma because I have only been here 2 years. I have lived on both coasts and everywhere in between and will be moving back to NM in the next 2 months where both Riley and Mutt live. I'm hoping it will be easier for Mutt to see his kids and Riley is opening a pizza joint with another friend from high school.
I am not meaning to slander Mutt, I just repeatedly see how he talks about me and felt it was only fair that I reply once on my behalf. The facts are the facts and the real truth between both of our sides is still out there somewhere. Of course we're both biased. I have more to tell but that would be true slander.

Please stop judging people on looks because I feel so happy to be with my man who I have crushed on my whole life. Yep, I'm marrying my high school crush. A lot of the guys on this board have seen me through the years and the preganancies and know me somewhat. They saw me stand up for and support Mutt through it all(and he did for me also) and it is unfortunate that things turned out the way they did....but they did.


If you have a lady in your life cherish her.
Don’t feel you need to defend yourself to Mutt, its just men’s shit talking going on here. If you think his comments are bad, think of how my girlfriend feels preparing me some dinner while I’m on the internet telling a women from Oklahoma that she's hot. Doesn’t mean I don’t cherish her. She cute, funny and lives with me even though I have custody of my 2 teenaged kids. It’s hard for a 29 year old girl to except, I know.
You and Mutt are still a fresh injury and things will get better in time, but arguing here will only prohibit things from healing. Garnish his wages if you aren’t getting the support payments. It will be one less obstacle in your recovery. He did admit that he was headed to Vegas so he should be able to pay support. If you do end up getting a steady flow of money and you find an extra $7,500, hit me up. I have a doctor here in NYC that will fix you up with a killer set of boobs. My gal got a new pair in September and she loves them.
Good luck with the pizza joint, girl. Sounds like a plan.
5/11/2011 7:23pm
Dont worry about implants Pix! Nothing wrong with some nice big floppers! hell yeahz!
Pixie
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5/11/2011 7:36pm
BUTCH wrote:
Sorry to hear about the devorce Pixie and Mutt, you guys have beautiful kids together and it's a sad deal! Good luck to the both of...
Sorry to hear about the devorce Pixie and Mutt, you guys have beautiful kids together and it's a sad deal! Good luck to the both of you and the kids. I'm sure things will smooth out for you guys as time goes on! Best wishes! Sonny quit being a prick!
Thanks, I'm heading to NM in hopes of keeping everyone closer. We'll see what happens.
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5/11/2011 7:42pm
Sonny, I know how the men are here~viva la Motodrive! The truth is I know Mutt has money and I know how he spends it and I try not to bug him about it but now I'm not going to have a choice but to at least get my last year in arrears. If he wants to waive his rights there's nothing I can do about that, but I know he loves his kids. Who couldn't, they're awesome.
And honestly for a gal who's turning 38 this year, being called hot doesn't really hurt my feelings~
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5/11/2011 7:46pm
Pixie wrote:
Sonny, I know how the men are here~viva la Motodrive! The truth is I know Mutt has money and I know how he spends it and...
Sonny, I know how the men are here~viva la Motodrive! The truth is I know Mutt has money and I know how he spends it and I try not to bug him about it but now I'm not going to have a choice but to at least get my last year in arrears. If he wants to waive his rights there's nothing I can do about that, but I know he loves his kids. Who couldn't, they're awesome.
And honestly for a gal who's turning 38 this year, being called hot doesn't really hurt my feelings~
Motodrive rocks! Just sayin'...


Btw, I'm turning 38 this year too..it's the cool thing to do!!!
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5/11/2011 7:51pm
Huck I just realized you're only like 4 hours away from me.
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5/11/2011 7:59pm
Pixie wrote:
Sonny, I know how the men are here~viva la Motodrive! The truth is I know Mutt has money and I know how he spends it and...
Sonny, I know how the men are here~viva la Motodrive! The truth is I know Mutt has money and I know how he spends it and I try not to bug him about it but now I'm not going to have a choice but to at least get my last year in arrears. If he wants to waive his rights there's nothing I can do about that, but I know he loves his kids. Who couldn't, they're awesome.
And honestly for a gal who's turning 38 this year, being called hot doesn't really hurt my feelings~
Waiving his rights is an insult to everyone, including himself. They are a nice looking group of kids for sure and they probably really love their dad. I'm sorry, I don't even know the guy but I'm willing to bet that if he digs down deep he can make this whole thing turn around. There is nothing you can do and writing off a kid will haunt him for years to come. I gotta think that its just anger speaking, and ole Mutts better than this. Good luck Pixie, alot is at stake here. It must be sad for everyone involved.
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5/11/2011 8:14pm
Pixie wrote:
Huck I just realized you're only like 4 hours away from me.
Where is Grove at?
5/11/2011 8:48pm
Sonny wrote:
No, I’m no Mutt, actually I’m a Purebred. Thank you. I wouldn’t know this Mutt if he walked up to me. But I’ll bet you were...
No, I’m no Mutt, actually I’m a Purebred. Thank you. I wouldn’t know this Mutt if he walked up to me. But I’ll bet you were way too hot for him too. God forbid if you have to see your man on an even keel.
For the record, and correct me if I’m wrong. This first picture is him “the New Man” and the second would be none other than you? See it proves my point, he’s not even in your ballpark. Either those pretty blue eye don’t work that well or you have slim pickings in Grove, Oklahoma. What I'd like to know is which dude put up the cash for the implants? All those kids, don't match what I see in the stars and strips pic.



My big sideburns and greaser clothes got me a hot chick too!
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5/11/2011 10:51pm
My guy just worked the Social D show in Albuquerque last week. It was my friend Tina's job to take Ness around town and entertain him until showtime. Turns out he likes to go antique shopping. Cool.
I believe Mutt was at the show in the crowd. I even scored some swag and I live states away. Nice!
5/12/2011 2:03am
Keep reciepts for everything, and use one checkbook for all your child related expenses. Makes it easier to keep track of. Hang in there man.
5/12/2011 3:25am
Pixie wrote:
My guy just worked the Social D show in Albuquerque last week. It was my friend Tina's job to take Ness around town and entertain him...
My guy just worked the Social D show in Albuquerque last week. It was my friend Tina's job to take Ness around town and entertain him until showtime. Turns out he likes to go antique shopping. Cool.
I believe Mutt was at the show in the crowd. I even scored some swag and I live states away. Nice!
Does Tina need a guy? I can be her assistant. I have met Mr Ness a few times and he was cool every time. I saw them here last week too......And bad religion last night. What did you get from the show? I got the setlist (I collect them) last time they came, I paid the bouncers to spwipe it for me. Its amazing what people will do for 20 bucks.
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5/12/2011 5:50am
Pixie wrote:
Huck I just realized you're only like 4 hours away from me.
huck wrote:
Where is Grove at?
Wow...just checked. Hey, I've played paintball very close to you....

It's in Wyandotte, OK.
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5/12/2011 7:13am
Huck you better not come back without pictures........
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5/12/2011 8:16am Edited Date/Time 5/12/2011 8:17am
Pixie wrote:
My guy just worked the Social D show in Albuquerque last week. It was my friend Tina's job to take Ness around town and entertain him...
My guy just worked the Social D show in Albuquerque last week. It was my friend Tina's job to take Ness around town and entertain him until showtime. Turns out he likes to go antique shopping. Cool.
I believe Mutt was at the show in the crowd. I even scored some swag and I live states away. Nice!
How cool. I've seen Social D more times than any other band. Must be up in the twenties at least by now. Next to the Clash, they are my all time favorite band. They used to play San Diego often back in the day.
5/12/2011 8:34am
Huck, u are kind of a fuckstick, but hopefully you have never gone to walk out the door to go riding and had her yell "I...
Huck, u are kind of a fuckstick, but hopefully you have never gone to walk out the door to go riding and had her yell "I hope you break your fuckin neck today!" and hear shit hitting the door behind you.
UpTiTe wrote:
Maybe you hould have stayed home?
Are you shitting me? What kind of pussy whipped mother fucker would turn around and sit on the couch after hearing that shit? She always knew...
Are you shitting me? What kind of pussy whipped mother fucker would turn around and sit on the couch after hearing that shit? She always knew well in advance of when I was going racing and when I wasnt. What I should have done, is divorce her then, three to four years before I did.
The pussy whipped Guy who has been married 17years is still happy and has a good relationship with his kids. Sometimes you need to swallow your selfish pride for the sake of your marriage and kids. From the sound of it you never learned that.
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5/12/2011 8:45am Edited Date/Time 5/12/2011 11:44am
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5/12/2011 8:46am
UpTiTe wrote:
The pussy whipped Guy who has been married 17years is still happy and has a good relationship with his kids. Sometimes you need to swallow your...
The pussy whipped Guy who has been married 17years is still happy and has a good relationship with his kids. Sometimes you need to swallow your selfish pride for the sake of your marriage and kids. From the sound of it you never learned that.
You are right, I have not learned it.
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5/12/2011 8:51am Edited Date/Time 5/12/2011 12:36pm
Woohoo
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5/12/2011 9:33am Edited Date/Time 5/12/2011 10:07am
There you go PrinecssPotter.

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